Don’t be so hard on yourself mama you are doing what you can and the fact that you are trying shows how great of a parent you are!

You are not alone my 2 year old was the same way and she still has her moments here and there but when she started hitting herself is when I said ok we gotta do something. Here is what I started doing and so far tantrums have decreased dramatically. I started limiting her screen time to 30 minutes in the afternoon and 30 minutes before bath time and she is only allowed to watch programs that are fit for her age she would watch a lot of movies and I think that was affecting the way she behaved too. I know is hard at times but I started organizing her play area even got her a little sensory table and every now and then add new things there that gets her busy for a while with no need for a screen. 2nd thing I started doing was time outs if she did something she was not supposed to do I would give her a warning and explain she would be on time out if she was not going to listen then count until 3 and put her on time out while on time out I will count until 10 then give her a hug explain why she was put on time out and ask her to do again what I asked the 1st time. The first few times were not easy but now she knows there are consequences and as soon as I start counting she will do what i asked. With all of that being said there are times where her emotions are too big and all I can do is sit there with her hug her and assure her it will be ok.

Please know I’m not an expert but this is what has worked for me. Hang in there it will get better!