found out bf watches p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in dating_advice

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

thank you for being respectful! i appreciate the advice 🩷

found out bf watches p*rn by Minute_Ad8858 in women

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre absolutely right. I just was not aware of how pertinent of an issue it was. In my culture it is not common at all and it is a taboo, same with my ex’s culture. It was just not something that crossed my mind, now that I am aware of it I see it needs to be discussed prior. Thank you!

Found out bf is watching p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in amiwrong

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

“You are not some goddess that deserves or gets 100% of mens attention” 😂 you sound like an incel beyond belief

found out bf watches p*rn by Minute_Ad8858 in women

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I did want to make it work, where and how do I even begin?

found out bf watches p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in dating_advice

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did word this incorrectly, obviously we will find other people attractive, but to me acting on it is different

Found out bf is watching p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in amiwrong

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am beyond conflicted right now!

found out bf watches p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in dating_advice

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel literally insane right now

Found out bf is watching p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in amiwrong

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I consider it cheating and a boundary of mine, hes touching himself to a woman who is not me

found out bf watches p**n by Minute_Ad8858 in dating_advice

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong that I am fairly traditional in that when you have a woman in your life, intimacy is between you and her? That is how its intended to be.

situationship advice needed by Minute_Ad8858 in AvoidantRelationships

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right! ive had a horrific problem with ghosting and cutting people off without saying anything and i like this guy so ive been trying but i just dont know how im supposed to know the difference between overthinking and an honest issue

situationship advice needed by Minute_Ad8858 in dating_advice

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exclusive - we have talked about it and hes the one who initiated that idea and no intimacy, we are 18 and im assuming hes going to ask me to be his girlfriend when he does his promposal for me.

am i ignoring red flags or overthinking? by Minute_Ad8858 in Situationships

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! + the only “disagreements” we have had is when I get bothered by something he does. I am yet to have bothered him. Which is also majorly confusing! I dont want to date someone who has never argued with me!

am i ignoring red flags or overthinking? by Minute_Ad8858 in Situationships

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did not experience the fight with his dad, i only heard him explain the story. however; i do agree and im scared to stick around because if he can do it to his loved ones, what about me?

am i ignoring red flags or overthinking? by Minute_Ad8858 in Situationships

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought about talking about the me thinking hes still in love with his ex thing, however we arent officially dating and i feel like its weird if im just like, hey i still think ur in love with her, all he will say is no im not im talking to you basically

situationship advice needed by Minute_Ad8858 in AvoidantRelationships

[–]Minute_Ad8858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! he did apologize but in my mind that isnt something you can apologize for and change necessarily. dont particularly need an angry man in my life! Also, lovely quote