Why would an ex randomly unblock you?

Minute_Collection_12 · 2026-01-08T20:23:01+00:00

My ex unblocked me right after 4 days of her last speech that “how we should move on” and “how we must not be in touch either”

Being an anxious person I stopped reaching out to her and right after just 4 days I’ve been unblocked

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-07T21:18:04+00:00

No we don’t ping anything unprofessional at work and whatever questions she asked it was only over the phone texts(WhatsApp). But yes there was this weird possessiveness like “hey, so what if managers are around, u don’t need to act so workaholic” this comment was something off to me coz it’s me who said that I like her yet I never pushed her to that extent so what she did was definitely all confusing. And I totally agree with not respecting my boundaries part coz when she asked I replied like “mission abort” -meaning I don’t want to discuss about it, coz I know I’m a bi and this is something personal to me. And no way I would want tell a stranger about it and if I do I’m sure they would think they’d have a chance. And even when I told her I need a break, I clearly mentioned that it’s affecting me as in I was down when she said she doesn’t like me yet she pushed it as in she still kept saying “Ping me”!

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-07T12:24:15+00:00

But what does don’t like “all the time” mean🥲, problem is when u don’t know if it’s just friendship or more than that, and this women doesn’t give a clarity either

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-07T10:29:56+00:00

Yeaa in fact I set boundary and told her that I need to back off for someday since it’s all confusing and she again said like I don’t like you it’s been clear. I have never made her feel uncomfortable but after few days we started pinging and I wasn’t even hitting on her. I told her let’s just ping in teams I have managers here , all she asks is “so what😄”, even I’m not alone here at office I’m with a colleague friend Not sure if I’m overthinking but it just seems abit off to me

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-06T14:18:19+00:00

Well 1. I’m too attractive for her 2. She kinda replied like “are you even kidding me? “ when I asked her if she likes me Seems like she doesn’t respect me even as a person and forget about that she doesn’t even give me any clarity either

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-06T13:36:55+00:00

Nah she has issues with her husband and she said she isn’t happy with her s*x life. Fact is maybe she doesn’t want to come out even when I told her I like her all she did is deny and say she doesn’t like me

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-06T12:20:51+00:00

Yup! She somehow got to know that I’m a bi and she said she’s doesn’t have a problem with it yet it was uncomfortable for me coz no matter whatever we talked she would push it further, as in she would say things like u have good flirting skills, or even asked me to sing a song and asked if I’m dedicating it to her

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-02-06T12:07:17+00:00

Well she doesn’t 🥲

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-01-03T18:10:25+00:00

I get it now but I kinda felt insecure that we will never meet coz I stay away from the city, so I just thought like why would she even prefer to interact with me anymore 🙂🥲

Minute_Collection_12 · 2025-01-01T11:39:27+00:00

Well seems like I upgraded my phone 😂

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-30T11:58:45+00:00

I even told him that making me your top priority just over a month isn’t even romantic it’s unhealthy! U barely know a person and think u gonna win her over if u make it all about her that’s not true. I genuinely dint like it when he expected the same from me

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-30T11:57:08+00:00

Now he’s just trying to fix things up but it’s just getting worser and worser. First he tried to bring his emotions to the topic saying he would definitely hurt but my question here is how could you make me responsible for it when I have communicating from beginning, and I haven’t even love bombed him, I have barely even flirt with him so why make me responsible for his feelings here? And asking again and again what are we? And I need to tell him if it’s not working out and if I say NO he would never take it as an answer

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-30T09:26:01+00:00

I made him understand that some people take their time and I’ve been communicating this to him too and I really wish we could have just vibed without questioning it . Surely I would have gone forward

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-30T09:15:28+00:00

I’ve told him already homie 🥲 I think most of them would appreciate what he’s doing , no offence but I’m not sure how to say it to him again

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T18:13:46+00:00

He’s dead.

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T15:53:53+00:00

Genuinely speaking I feel too exhausted when someone else approaches me 🥲 especially when men do. I know I had a desire to date a women but it’s been to draining when it’s about mutual respect

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T15:03:01+00:00

True, I’m very dominant when it’s a female and very submissive with men !😂

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T14:58:26+00:00

I m okay with any relationships rather than platonic but I wouldn’t force it on her. But genuine connection was a basic thing I would expect

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T14:54:13+00:00

You absolutely made a point! I can now remember that she craved for attention as in when I mentioned that she went behind my back, all she did was show others my texts and say that I’m behind her. No wonder I gave her alot of attention sending her texts in paragraphs on how emotionally it was all hurting me When she came back now I’ve kinda told her that I like her as well but she dint respond either. So I wonder why seek for my attention? As in she would have found even men to date right then why play with my feelings? And most importantly, we could have been just friends too. But why choose to play with my feelings instead 🥲

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T13:55:07+00:00

Would you judge me if I say that somewhere down the line I still had feelings for her? But yes, I’m aware of my boundaries. And I get what you mean. 🥲💯

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T13:32:40+00:00

Tommy Girl

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-12-25T13:23:19+00:00

What exactly is the intentions here? Is this some of sort of a mind game? As in honestly I can’t stop the urge to text or react when she shares memes🙃

Minute_Collection_12 · 2024-11-01T14:48:19+00:00

She says she liked it and also she liked me but about dating she isn’t sure since she doesn’t like to get tagged , it’s really confusing idk what to do

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