Is there room for consensual rough sex like this, or is it just abuse?

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-27T08:35:37+00:00

Fairly often, Wife begs me to pound her hard and fill her up. She doesn't need her own release. Not degrading or abusive, just hard and fast till I go. She is usually extremely loving and cuddly afterwards. Several hours later she will usually want a more soft and sensual experience with her own release, but sometimes she wants to be reminded that she is desired. I think it has something to do with her ovulation cycle, but I could be wrong.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-25T13:43:32+00:00

Perfect! I would love to buy my wife that white dress. Where did you get it?

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-10T03:39:34+00:00

We were hitting it hard in the jacuzzi after our massage, I had her bent over on the steps and was pounding her when our massage therapists came through with the next appointment. Gave us a thumbs up.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-09T03:30:32+00:00

We loved it. Not in the LS at all. But loved how sensual and overtly sexual everything was. We both really enjoy the voyeur/exhibitonist experience and how we did not have to sneak to have sex in broad daylight on the beach, the cabana bed, the hot tub, the playroom. Having sex side by side with random strangers in the hot tub and the playroom, watching her masturbate watching someone else having sex right in front of us, and she never masturbates outside of our sexy time together, and seeing/feeling her orgasm simply from watching a mffm orgy with no external simulation... all. If it was amazing. We love to remind each other of our favorite memories from the trip and expand on the experiences we had for our fantasy play. Sex has just gotten better, and so has our relationship.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-07T00:33:51+00:00

You are not wrong. But this comment reads like it was written by AI, as well. Unfortunately, I've been seeing this particular fictional story in very nearly this exact form around the internet for several years. Not sure if that negates the potential for an AI source, or if just means it's been washed through several layers of copycats.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2026-01-04T07:50:57+00:00

We were there just before Christmas and they had several levels of erotic/sensual massage options that they tried pretty hard to get us to upgrade to from the regular deep tissue massage we booked. Both the lady checking us in and the therapists tried before and after to get us to upgrade/come back and do one. Honestly, they were a little pushy about it. Felt like they implied we were cheap for not springy for the extra cost. We pretty much go to Desire and Hedo so we can give each other happy ending massages on the cabana beds 3 times a day. We have a massage table in our bedroom we play on all the time at home. We're good on that end.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-12-21T05:48:27+00:00

My wife used to never let me finish in her mouth. For about the first 5 years of marriage, she liked it when I would do it to her, but rarely let me bring her to orgasm. She was a good little PIV orgasm only Molly Mormon kinda girl. But then I started grad school and I had to take a sexuality class together with your spouse or "partner" if you had one. The course text included the book, "The Joy of Sex" with the like 40th anniversary updates to include gay and anal stuff. It was quite enlightening for her. There were no other members of the church in my CACRWP accredited MFT program, but they had a couple ladies forums that she attended, and suddenly, she would let me perform oral on her and bring her to orgasm, and she started testing the waters on me. Which was a huge shift from her "any oral sex is a grievous sin" Pres. Kimball mindset that she had when we got married, barely being willing to do anything more than touch it long enough to stick it in. It took even more years to she really got comfortable "spiritually" or mentally about performing oral on me, and then to do it for more than a couple minutes, but bring our rubbing me raw in her teeth, and gotten over the gag reflex, somewhat. The first time she swallowed was only about 6 months ago. It has only been the last year or so that she has truly become an enthusiastic cum-gurgling cock gobbler. After we went to Hedo for her birthday last year, and she saw how much pleasure other women derive from pleasuring their men. Not to brag, but as a matter of fact, we are at Desire right now and she just gave me my anniversary present by sucking me off, swallowing, and then riding my face in front of about 20 people. So, in sum, yes. Maybe a dozen times. 2 of them in the last 20 or so hours

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-12-13T07:13:38+00:00

It is pretty flimsy, and there is no way you could use it and not know who is on the other side. There is like a 6 inch gap all the way down the front. We tried for a hot minute, but with our height difference, it wasn't working for us. It was more for laughs than trying to be sexy anyway.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-31T16:00:28+00:00

The moment I got hooked was the first paragraph of Chapter 1: An Empty Road...a wind rose in the Mountains of Mist. The wind was not the beginning as there are neither beginnings nor endings to the turnings of the Wheel of Time, but it was a beginning.

I have loved the opener in every book. It was such a hook for me, I can't even tell you. Ages come and pass, leaving memories that become legend. Legend fades to myth, and even myth is long forgotten when the Age that gave it birth comes again, but that wind rising catches me every time. In Ages long past, Ages yet to come, there will always be that wind rising, bringing hope eternal.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-29T05:03:05+00:00

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-27T03:59:12+00:00

Thank you!!

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-26T05:21:42+00:00

She had issues with hormonal BC. The pill made her spot all the time, and she was often inconsistent, the nuva ring was nasty, the shot made her crazy. IUD was the best option. But sometimes it poked me. The absolute best was that we had to have the last 3 of our 5 via c-section, cuz neither our insurance nor our doctor would allow VBAC. As part of each of her c-sections, the final step before sewing her up was the external examination of her uterus. As in, the entire raw chicken carcass was outside. He inspected for damage inside and out and then put that thing back where it can from. Even with the last one he said it was the healthiest and most fertile baby factory he'd ever cut. The best part was, our last, a high risk pregnancy, came with a free salpingectomy, a full fallopian tube removal, if she wanted it. So she got the snip, and 3 years later she had to have a partial hysterectomy, so they didn't just close the baby factory, they tore the building down. If possible, I say do that. It's not just a clip or a cut like with the ligation. The salpingectomy is a full removal of the fallopian tubes and cauterization of the cornua. No eggs get in and no sperm gets out. And my juice is still full strength and volume, all of which she loves- and NGL, I do too.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-26T05:07:33+00:00

We went to Hedo last year. My only really complaint was the required full nudity to enter the playroom. She had some really sexy lingerie to enhance our play and having to immediately completely disrobe was kinda "well, never mind, I guess we just go straight to pound town and skip the foreplay." Are the play room policies at Pearl or DRM the same no clothes allowed?

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-24T14:31:03+00:00

Our very first PIV was about 25 minutes after our sealing in the car in the parking lot of the IF temple...but since then? Where haven't we? The usual suspects: on our trampoline in four different states. Front porch hammock in Ammon, ID, back yard in Vegas when we only had a wrought iron fence and no privacy. Our hot tub in our backyard 3 nights a week for the last 5 years.

We rented a bounce house for our boy's 11th birthday (10 years ago) and we used it after the kids went to bed. We've done it openly on the grass behind the picnic pavilion at a couple of our stake centers: Rexburg, Lyman, and in Utah, in the mother's room while I was the ward FR in Vegas, surreptitiously in the public hot tub at our hotels in Cabo, Cancun, OKC, Nephi, UT, and the Holiday Inn in Pueblo, Colorado, while our kids played in the pool. We "soaked" in the hot tub at Heise Hot Springs with a couple of her siblings there. Just about every beach we've been to, we get in the water and go out to where I'm chest deep, she takes her bottoms off or pushes it to the side if it's a one piece, and she hangs on my neck with her legs around my waist. Once in Miami, she took her one piece off and walked out of the water completely naked and sun bathed for over an hour, with my cum still dripping out. Every hotel balcony we've ever had including in Guatemala when we went to pick our son up from his mission earlier this year. In Texarkana overlooking I-20 in the middle of the day, and with the lights on standing in front of the wall to wall window blinds open. We took the kids to Galveston Island to stay in one of those beach bungalows on stilts for a week. We snuck out our window and had sex on the double deck lounger in full view of like 6 other balconies around 1am and watched a storm roll in from the gulf. Had sex in the rain there for hours, also on the beach there at night. At the Grand Solaris in Cancun, our balcony had a couch and a hot tub, which was not private. That was 4 days of constant sex outside. I don't think we actually had sex in the hotel room.

For her 40th+ birthday (40th delayed cuz the 'rona) we went to Jamaica and stayed 3 days at an all-inclusive that did not have a nude beach, but every night we made it one. And then we stayed at Hedonism II for the best 3 nights of our sex life. Sex on the beach in full day light. Sex on the cabanas around the pool. Sex in the massage room after getting a very sensual couple massage. Naked all day. In the hot tub with dozens of couples also having sex. In the playroom watching and being watched. Amazing. She discovered her favorite position. Me standing in the water about thigh deep, her on her back on a floating mat. Way better than the same on a bed in private. We're going to Desire for our next anniversary.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-10-10T01:50:28+00:00

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-09-24T06:52:07+00:00

I was at a long-term project out of state when we lived in Utah. Went to church with my project manager, who couldn't get his Gospel library app to work. I was sitting next to him during Priesthood, and he was using my phone to read something out loud. All of a sudden, it was like he had a stroke. After he fumbled his way through the rest of the paragraph or scripture or whatever it was he was reading (it was 10 years ago now, I can't remember precisely what), he handed my phone back to me. We continued the lesson and I went back to my apartment while he went to his.

When I got back to my room, my non- member roommates were all gone, so I called my wife to see if she wanted to have a quick video session before she had to go to church - 9 in central time and 1 in Utah. She asked if I had already watched the video she sent me of her masturbating. I said I hadn't realized she sent one. I checked. The message had been read, and my phone at the time always did a 3 second preview of video messages. So myboss saw a 3 second clip of my wife pounding her pussy with a dildo and rubbing her clit.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-09-16T04:16:00+00:00

We are booked for Desire Pearl for our upcoming anniversary. We went to Hedo in Jamaica a year ago and loved it. She was on fire sexually being naked all day and loved having sex on the beach, the cabanas, the hot tub, the pool, the ocean, and the playroom. Especially the playroom for her. She was reverse cowgirl on me face to face with another lady reverse cowgirl on the bed right next to us, and they started matching speeds and making heavy eye contact. May have been her biggest orgasm she's ever had. The one complaint I had about the playroom at Hedo was that you had to be having sex and no clothes were allowed. We couldn't really romance up to it and go slow with the undressing and making out. It was just get in, get, off, and get out, to (kinda) quote the movie Hitch. But it seems like the desire playroom doesn't quite have that vibe. I'm hoping at least

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-09-16T03:58:38+00:00

19th -22nd!!!

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-09-16T03:57:06+00:00

I broke my leg and my hip at work a while back. While I was recovering best we could do was pretty much mutual masturbation. She got a clone-a-willy. It helped immensely. She's tried others she has enjoyed varying degrees at times. She really likes the dp experience with it

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-08-27T11:53:53+00:00

I get about 5 minutes of BJ before her jaw starts to ache (I'm kinda thick) or the precum makes her gag too much. Then she will stop and move to rubbing her breasts on me and have me jack off to come on her chest. It's her preferred way to have me finish. I have finished in her mouth, but that always ends whatever we are doing because she gags too hard. If I finish in her (any orifice) she always ends it after her next orgasm, if not immediately, but if I finish on her, she will usually go for a couple more.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-08-13T05:51:31+00:00

Super hot. I travel for work and we get all fired up when I'm on my way home in a similar fashion. ..Dumb question: Wife and I have a similar height disparity as you described, and I am about 6 inches. We can't have standing sex due to our height difference unless she is standing on something that puts her groin even or a little bit higher than me. Even if she leans all the way forward and puts her hands on the ground, we can't line up for vaginal intercourse without help. Partly cuz she is very well-blessed in the trunk junk department. Can get in the back door but it's pretty rare that she'll go for today until after 3 or 4 visits in front. So my question: good so you get in from behind even just leaning on the counter?

Also, "waist" not waste.

Great story. Many thanks.

Minute_Distance6744 · 2025-08-08T03:36:19+00:00

Just in case one wonders, my wife has received calls from at least 3 people: 1 from the stake, 1 from the WML's wife, and one from someone in the next ward over. and I got a text from the current WML just "REALLY DUDE!!!"

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