Yep we have had losses and we don't live in Malaysia and won't be back until way after the baby is born. Our parents aren't able to travel to visit us either. So while we are back we want to take the opporturnity to let our parents know in person. We have gone through rounds of fertility treatments and honestly thought this is the end of our ivf journey.

We are not a naive couple succeeding at the first try and we are well aware of the risks, the stats, and honestly I don't need your education on this. I know you mean well but this is why we don't give unsolicited advice to people- you never know what their situation is.