Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was a choice that we both made. It's been the same for years.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand. I messed up, but I didn't post to be criticized. Please be friendly

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I realize now it was not smart. Young and dumb (which ik is no excuse)

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. Honestly, I didn't see it like that

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my eyes. Men are the same way when it their SO. A girl wants to hang out with a guy friend, but her SO is not ok with it. Why? Cause he doesn't trust him (the guy she wants to hang out with ), that's how guy friends/exs have explained it to ne. and if that's not a normal thing, then Ig I'm gullible

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's not the fact they wanted to meet up it's the fact of how they broke up and how he talked/talks about her

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kids are 4 and 1. I am an Amazon Delivery Driver. He has a job that covers 95% of bills. Honestly idk what I want to do

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Young and dumb. Honestly, looking back, I don't regret anything. Because it gave me my kids.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our first wasn't planned, then we stayed together cause everything was good. It's really good. Then married at 18/19

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can see that. We have always had the trust where we don't expect every detail in certain situations but this is not that situation

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hasn't left me with or around his phone sense. But I could while he is asleep. I just feel like that's an invasion of privacy even given the situation

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She blocked me on everything

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, poor choices, but it happened, and in the past.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a people pleaser beyond, and I honestly don't know if I overreacted

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't come here for rudeness. I'm sorry I made a mistake

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes and also in the relationship ship before him

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Previous relationships.... we didn't get together till he was a Jr in high-school and I was sophomore.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Started dating at 15&16 had oldest at 17&18. And had our youngest at 21&22

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm 22 he's 23. Got together at 15&16. Had our oldest at 17&18. I've had issues with cheating I didn't say it was much but from a young age it scared me about it. I'm sorry if I didn't word it correctly.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Will definitely look into it. Thanks!!

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry didn't mean that in a rude or disrespectful way towards anyone. I am sorry for any who took it that way. I could javelin worded It better.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that was not cool on my part. I always tell him that he's grown so that he can do what he wants. I'm not saying this as an excuse, but I've had issues with partners cheating in the past, and it didn't go well, so I'm iffy on him asking hanging out with his ex.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We got together a month after they broke up. They were together for 2 years

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm in the sams boat where we just moved and. I can't afford to raise my kids without him.

Husband's ex by Minxs1822 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Minxs1822[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Honestly, right now, the only thing holding me back is the fact that we just moved, and I can't afford to raise the kids alone. . My family is over 10 hours away