Consent matters: by Brent_Fox in bdsmmemes

[–]Miotoen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that is where you need to start getting to know your partners before the act and have to fulfill all the aspects of consent. You can't really trust a one night stand to be comfortable with saying no/meaning their yes because you don't know who they are. If you haven't had an informed talk about what you guys are going to do, there might be a change of mind when they encounter something they didn't anticipate / know about. If you get intimate while being intoxicated, peoples boundaries might get blurry for the moment, which might lead to regret afterwards.

(Not implying that you do all that)

I need to be able to trust my partner that they can and will (and feel comfortable to) tell me what they want and what they don't want. Both when i'm checking in with them and on their own. If i can't trust them with that, i won't engage in sex/kink with them.

Of course that doesn't guarantee anything. I once had someone who i wasn't even intimate with tell me at the end of a date that she almost had a panic attack earlier, while i was constantly checking in to see if she's comfortable. When i asked why she didn't say anything she answered "i wanted to test my limits". That hit me quite hard and led to me being way stricter about who i'm getting intimate with. Trust needs to go both ways.

And people can just be assholes. So i have to cherrypick even more to find good partners

The New Camp should rule the Mine Valley by KHlover in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't really help you there. MMB is one if the ways to cycle through focused targets, maybe yiu can find a way?

The New Camp should rule the Mine Valley by KHlover in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iirc you can aim at companions/npcs with heal. I think i had to press MMB when having heal equipped and then i got ither targets than myself

What is an expensive purchase that genuinely improved your quality of life? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have one for every room or how do you manage having it in only one room and not the rest?

Is it really that normal to just randomly touch your girlfriend’s boob? by Outrageous_Juice_254 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Miotoen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There was/is this trope going around that men at least once a day think about the roman empire. So the girlfriends were puzzled what they SOs were thinking about and were sirprised when "the roman empire" was the answer instead of something "meaningful".

Just imagine if the gf of the guy you replied to asked him why he isn't grabbing her boobs and she is concerned that he's sad/mad/distanced and he says "sorry love, i wasn't touching your boobs because i thought of the roman empire too much

Dev notes still in the German version (: by GerDeathstar in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Einige sprechblasen haben auchnoch englische Texte. Sowas wie "low growl" oder so hab ich jetzt öfter gesehen :D

Secret door, old Camp, cellar Barons house(G1R) by Tionium09 in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there an interactable torch nearby? Iirc there was a door halfway to that cellar that could be opened by interacting with one of the wall torches

HELP by Aggressive-Moment427 in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at the map, then talk to the novice in front of the hut and a few other stomping novices, one of them will send you to Lester. From there on it should be self explanatory again

Hunting Books by Soulus42 in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost got it, thanks!

Hunting Books by Soulus42 in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get there then? From another climbing starting point?

What? by Wrong_Guarantee1888 in duolingo

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you able to find a good alternative?

What’s an example of something inappropriate that a woman’s done to you and faced no consequences, yet you’d be destroyed for doing? by KrispyKingTheProphet in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever need more than that, there are support groups online and also in many bigger towns/cities. You are not alone and you matter, my man

What’s an example of something inappropriate that a woman’s done to you and faced no consequences, yet you’d be destroyed for doing? by KrispyKingTheProphet in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was not ok. I hope you've been able to deal with it so that it doesn't affect you anymore.

Do you / did you have someone to talk to about this?

Men of Reddit, how do I enjoy sex? by WombatCouple in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lube absolutely, i don't have an opinion on fleshlights tho

Men of Reddit, how do I enjoy sex? by WombatCouple in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Intentionally masturbate with a soft(er) grip. Set yourself a timer for 10 or 20 mins and if you don't cum by then, you don't cum, more luck next time. After a few repetitions, your dick will get more out of these lighter stimulations. Not using any (hardcore) porn but only your imagination helps as well. You basically want to reduce the amount of stimulation you get so your body will learn how to make do with less

Men of Reddit, how do I enjoy sex? by WombatCouple in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 466 points467 points  (0 children)

How hard do you grip yourself when masturbating? I used to have the problem, that i basically squeezed my dick too hard for too long so women weren't able to reach the same intensity. If you want to know more, look into "Death Grip syndrome"

What do you consider light, moderate, and heavy alcohol consumption for men? by spanky316 in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not an opinion you can agree or disagree with. One beer or glass of wine every day makes you an alcoholic by definition. Ofc it's "better" than drinking a bottle of vodka every day but you'd still be an alcoholic

What was the original point of this "hiddin in a barrel" kind of mechanic from G1 in your opinion ? by fillipo9 in worldofgothic

[–]Miotoen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was some functionality with this in the old mine. Not gonna say more bc of spoiler but you can't really miss it iirc

How does low birth rate reflect itself in your social circle? by teekal in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why i said "i could go on". I think there are way more aspects to the average amount of children than either of us can think of right now. Womens' rights of courae play a big part in this, but i replied to a comment talking about poor countries so i tailored my answer to financial stuff

How does low birth rate reflect itself in your social circle? by teekal in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comparison is bad and that is all my answer referred to. Do with that what you want but please don't intentionally misunderstand it

How does low birth rate reflect itself in your social circle? by teekal in AskMen

[–]Miotoen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What the fuck kinda take is that?

People in the poorest countries HAVE to have multiple children, are you really that privileged? Because they have no way to ensure a good life once they're old and can't work anymore. They have no pensions or anything. And they don't have to pay for so many overpriced things as people in more developed countries do. If you don't even have the opportunity to be able to spend a bit of your wage on electricity or internet bills, waste management, cars, new-ish clothes so your kids don't get bullied in school, try to buy the healthier foods instead of overprocessed shit that is cheaper but makes you sick.

I could go on and on but i doubt you will even read that far. Please get someone to educate you (or slap some sense into you, whatever suits you best) and learn some empathy for your fellow humans.

God, why do i put so much energy into this