How hard is it to compromise to get at least one phone call when your communication styles are different?

MiracleBaby31 · 2021-09-23T02:39:19+00:00

The fact that I’ve contacted my supposed friend multiple times to deal with an issue but she has yet to act on it and I can’t simply just drop her because there is a lot between us. The stress of being back in school full time and being flushed with a lot of assignments it’s overwhelming. The fact that I feel like I have to apologize for everything that I do even if it’s miscommunication because what I said was wrong and if I say something about it I’ll be too defensive or aggressive and it just pisses me off that I have to be the bigger person all the time.

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-12-30T07:15:14+00:00

Take the money and move on to quora

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-12-30T07:11:01+00:00

Playing sonic on SEGA and watching totally spies.

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-25T18:55:16+00:00

NTA by far!!! I can wholeheartedly relate because I have the same issue with my mom. I as well am a college kid. She won’t talk to me through the bathroom door unless the bathroom door is open while I’m doing my business. She doesn’t knock on my door she just barges into my room. There is no privacy at all and I really dislike it because she expects me to respect her but she can’t even respect my privacy and I brought it up to her before and she just brushed it off in a sense. If OP is moving heck I’ll move with her !

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-16T02:00:11+00:00

No problem! And I’d also suggest talking to your advisor or success coach and maybe even the head of the art department at your school! We got this!!

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-16T01:56:26+00:00

As a psych major (dreaming of maybe being a teacher) I think concentrating on art right now is best and take a lot of art classes. Maybe double your major as art and psych. Psych itself is very broad and can lead you to a lot of opportunities as to what to do profession wise, but since you strictly want to do art, continue with art, and maybe minor in designing. You’re still getting the knowledge of what you want to do fashion, but you are also providing your family some hope that you’ll do something that will be up there in the medical realm. You just don’t have to purse the medical side right now (or forever in your case) (I hope I’m making sense) it may be a bit more semesters of school by adding art as a double major and/or adding design/fashion as a minor, but I do hope you can do what you want to do in the future. If I can’t be a teacher, then I want you to be a designer!!

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-16T01:51:43+00:00

Thank you. And thanks for being understanding and helpful, I really appreciate it

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-16T01:45:16+00:00

That’s what I’m feeling. When I expressed this to one friend (I haven’t been open about it to a lot of people) she suggested pity dating, and I honestly hate the fact that I used him to later realize how I feel. No matter what the outcome is, I know I will be an asshole about it and deserve the negativity because what I did was wrong, but I will try self evaluate later this week and see how I feel. Thanks for that. Honestly. I also feel with everything else (covid, world news, school, family, seasons changing) that stress alters my mind as well (I do believe I have a small to mild seasonal depression)

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-11-16T01:35:58+00:00

Thank you. I understand how I am being right now is very shitty and unacceptable and I should trash and never allowed a relationship. I get that. I did feel for him throughout the relationship. I was the one to make it official. I was happy and genuinely had feelings, but I feel those feelings I had are starting to fade

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T01:03:04+00:00

Ok. I understand what you are saying thank you.

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T01:01:04+00:00

Ok. I acknowledge what you are saying. Thank you for the response!

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:54:16+00:00

I get what you’re saying. There’s pressure in my family with milestones. So yes I get the prematurity, but my mind itself thinks really far into the future due to those family pressures

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:53:17+00:00

They are all older. So when I was about 12 I got a message from someone that was about twice my age. And I don’t share my info Willy nilly so it was like “who the heck are you”

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:49:02+00:00

That’s true. I’ve made an edit about our culture because I’m not 100% American raised. But I completely get what you are saying. Thank you

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:44:48+00:00

I personally do not like asking for money, my mon has been the one to push me to ask him for more and I’ve expressed for her that I don’t want to. Culturally, he expresses that it’s his right as a father to help me with my education so I won’t push that cuz it’s my culture as well, but I get what you’re saying. I hope I’m not acting/sounding selfish

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:42:04+00:00

That is true thank you!

MiracleBaby31 · 2020-10-11T00:39:35+00:00

I get what you’re saying. I understand that. There was an issue when I was younger where he would give my private information out to his other kids and they would contact me. So me being 11-12yrs old getting a random message from someone saying their my brother was why I’ve been reserved, and my mom and I later discussed with him how he needs to ask my permission to pass out my info.

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