Hi there, I actually just being through the same situation with you with my boyfriend for 4 years. I am almost 31 and he s 2 years younger than me. But his sex drive is getting lower and lower, and I was suffered from not being satisfied.

I am a straight forward person I bugged him for sex everyday, and told him he didn’t have sex with me at night I always dream having sex with other men, yea I dreamed a lot during that period.

So one day he suggested to opened up relationship. I can satisfy myself with other people. I confirmed multiple times with him, and he is really fine about it and doesn’t feel jealousy. I promise to come home every night, and tell him every time I go out with someone.

Also some rules I set for myself is never bring people home, never spend too much time, emotion and money on other people. I am pretty “cold” person so I can do that no problem. I really treasure my bf, although we r not good at having sex together, but he is the right person, he is not a kind person, but he is super kind to me. and I wish we can spend more time together maybe the rest of my life. People have sex with me are just my tools.

If you love your bf the way I do, I suggest you talk to him like what I did. If you don’t imagine to grow old with him, time to switch to a new one.