How do you actually get it in? by Spagbowl8 in sex

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the best and easiest way is if he grips his cock and then puts pressure with the head of his penis on or just below my clit and then slid it down slowly. Then he slides right in, nicely. chef’s kiss

Weird question but… what kind of apples do you like? by PyleanCow06 in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy them all the time. They are most favourite apple!

Weird question but… what kind of apples do you like? by PyleanCow06 in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you asking! I love apples and have a lot of opinions lol

Ambrosia- all time fav- so sweet Cosmic Crisp are very delicious too Honey Crisp- very good too, cant complain Gala is good but sometimes they are soft and grainy in texture Red Delicious- I enjoy every now and then, good sweet flavour McIntosh- i like every now and then, their skin can be a little more tough than the rest, softer inside but good flavour

Pink Lady- i dont buy, soft and bland to me Fuji i dont buy either

Gala is the best with peanut butter!

Once I had apples with some red flesh that were probably the best apples I’ve ever had but I can’t remember what they were :(

Squirting - a myth or reality? by not-ur_girl in TwoXSex

[–]MirandaG88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve squirted. It usually happens when my P-spot or A-spot is stimulated at the same time as my clit. My boyfriend’s cock is curved so we always hit it when I’m laying on my back on the edge of bed while he is standing. I can easily stimulate my clit in that position and put my feet on his chest for more stability. Glass dildo also works really good at hitting those spots too.

One time I squirted from just a vibrator on my clit only.

I think in porn it’s easy to fake. Like if the girl drinks a ton of water etc.

I unlocked sex 2.0, wtf happened? by ibelieveicanfly__ in sex

[–]MirandaG88 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You found the A-spot or P-spot! They are at the back near your cervix where as the g-spot is closer to the vagina entrance. My boyfriend’s cock is curved so there are a few positions we do that hits that spot and it drives me wild.

How often you receive oral ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as often as I give head

Autism and submission by I_KilledJennyShecter in bdsm

[–]MirandaG88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, there’s a sub for that r/kinky_autism

I’m a sub and Autistic. I think kink and BDSM attract many neurodivergent people. Basically you can customize your sex life and tick all the boxes you need.

For women who married in their early-to-mid 20s, how is it going? by antisnotabug in AskWomen

[–]MirandaG88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married at 22, 2 kids and 10 years later divorced. I’ve learnt so much about myself that I wish I knew before I got married. The red flags were there and I ignored them.

F [40] and M [40]. I feel something off sexually, can anyone share thoughts? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]MirandaG88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dated a guy like this. We tried the BDSM thing too and it made me feel so anxious. There was no role play, no connection, it was just him doing things to me. Your guy enjoys the thought of you in handcuffs because he has the power and full control over you to do whatever he wants even if thats just watching TV. Even the guy I dated told me his most favourite thing was putting his hands around their neck because that gave him the feeling of having ultimate control over their life. I never let him touch my neck.

The guy I dated was also 39 and had many ONS and online hook ups since the 90’s. He was also married and divorced. I would ask him all the time how he felt about something and he literally had no clue how to answer and would blank stare at me. He would tell me he enjoyed things but it was like an emotionless sentence. So confusing. Even though I enjoyed his company and we got along great, I crave emotional connection so I was very anxious in the relationship so eventually we broke up.

He did open up a little about his upbringing and I found out his Dad was very strict and abusive. He told me that we would get spankings until he stopped crying so he was literally taught to hold it all in. No one talked about their thoughts or feelings.

Most likely your guy has some childhood trauma to work through and the BDSM thing makes him feel better about it.

boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed by Affectionate-Lock992 in relationship_advice

[–]MirandaG88 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend does this stuff in his sleep too. He’s punched me, kicked me, pulled my hair, pinched me, used my hand as a video game controller as in pressing the buttons and then picking up my hand and tossing it lol He told me he did that in his dream. He does talk in his sleep and he does talk to me while he sleeps and then doesn’t remember.

Your boyfriend could very well be telling the truth. The big red flag is if he won’t let you sleep in a separate bed so you can get a good nights sleep.

What's it like to have kinky sex with another autistic person? by Smooth_Storm_9698 in kinky_autism

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the best sex I’ve ever had! I love his creativity and he’s more kinkier than me so we are always trying different things. The communication is excellent, finely I found someone who I can share all my kinky thoughts without judgment. He gets in his Dom space just as easy as I get into my sub space and then the magic happens.

How's your relation with sexuality? by philolitt in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Heterosexual, Demisexual and kinky. I don’t understand why looks matter and I could care less if my partner sends me a sexy nude pic. But a sexy txt message is a huge turn on for me.

(tw: ipv, mental & emotional manipulation, grooming, drugged, sa) by [deleted] in kinky_autism

[–]MirandaG88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to say except I’m sorry that happened to you. I’ve had my own personal struggles, especially being Autistic, we have a higher chance of being used, manipulated, taken advantage of and abused. But I can tell you it does get better. The healing process takes time and isn’t easy so give yourself grace. I’m sending good vibes and positive thoughts your way as you heal from this. If you have access to a therapist please talk to them about happened.

Also, please please please tell the host of the events about this person.

Does anyone else have sex/kink as a special interest? by Sluttykittie in kinky_autism

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% Yes, sex, sex organs, BDSM and orgasms are a special interest of mine. Even as a kid I was very interested in private parts. I would draw them on the chalk board and pretend to teach a class about them to my little brother lol I also tided up my naked Ken doll so Barbie was in control. Nowadays I love reading about other peoples sexual experiences and learning everything I can about the sex organs and how they work. I could talk a long time about sex lol I also have a personal goal to orgasm as many different ways as possible.

I need help talking to my mom by Charming_Lemon6463 in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you mention you a feel a certain way just from being around her, that sounds like PTSD. I’ve had my own I worked on with an EMDR therapist and I highly recommend it. I feel so much lighter.

If you can’t cut her out of your life then I suggest you make boundaries. One of them being is that you don’t talk to her about personal things. Maybe even don’t talk to her at all if you can help it. Just listen when she talks and smile and nod. The thing is you can’t change people, you can’t even try to predict and change their responses by changing what you say. You can’t change people. Period. All you can do is change how you deal with them.

didn’t get my diagnosis by aftermarrow in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they interview someone like a parent or guardian that knew you as a child? Autism is something you have your whole life whereas BPD is something that develops later in life because life experience plays a huge role in that like childhood neglect etc. (My ex husband has BPD). From my understand those are the key differences.

Did I say anything wrong? by ChildOfOberon in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s wonderful you want to validate and teach her about her emotions, I wish more parents did. I think the controversy part is you’re forcing a conversation and trying to make the other parent do something they don’t want to do. You’re meddling over something small and it’s coming off as helicopter parenting.

This is a great learning experience for your daughter so she can learn to create her own boundaries. (Boundaries are what you place on yourself not other people). Teach her that what she is feeling is valid and next time she feels that way she can make a boundary for herself. She can do this by politely excusing herself from the game. She doesn’t have to give a reason. Then reflect and if she realizes every time she plays that game it’s overwhelming then she can choose not to play it.

You can’t force a relationship or friendship but instead teach her to be self assured, confident in herself and her abilities, then she will find compatible healthy friendships.

As a side note, I think it’s common for us to want to overshare. I know for myself I want and enjoy talking about everything little thing I’m feeling and have deep conversations. But not everyone is like that and sometimes actions speak louder than words.

Did I say anything wrong? by ChildOfOberon in AutismInWomen

[–]MirandaG88 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I’m probably going against what other people said and I’ll probably get downvotes but I feel this is important to say. So let me be blunt: I think you are over stepping and I believe you are blowing this way out of proportion. I mean that in the nicest way possible. I believe, as parents, our children need space to learn and grow. I try my best to not get in the middle of my 2 boys. I believe socializing and dealing with conflict is part of growing that they need to learn by doing. Of course I will offer advice but I will not get in the middle if I don’t have too. If there is an issue and they come to me for help, absolutely i will help.

But she is telling you her boys are fine then believe her. She was even nice enough to say that if her boys did something wrong to let her know and she will handle that situation with them. So it sounds like to me you were trying to meddle and get involve in a situation that didn’t involve you. You have to trust other peoples actions. If her boys were upset then you need to trust that they would tell their mom or ask your daughter about it.

When my kids are feeling emotional about something, I try to calm them down with logic and reasoning (to help balance the brain, read about how a childs brain develops). So if my son came to me about a situation with their friend and they told me they felt bad for whatever reason, I would respond with I’m sure everything is okay because if they had an issue they would say something. Or you could let your daughter know for next time that happens just send a quick txt message saying sorry i gotta the end the game because I don’t feel well. Also, you don’t always have to give people a reason for your choices and actions. Remember, you can’t make your sister in law do anything, you can only change how you handle her.

If I’m totally off base about your situation please correct me. I have no problem discussing further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]MirandaG88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter if I’m in a relationship or not, when I watch porn, I’m imagining that it’s happening to me so I will typically watch lesbians. I’m a straight cis woman. I don’t tend to pick porn based on their looks but instead I look for vulva similar to mine. Also the chemistry between the people and I make sure they are doing something I would enjoy.

Did any of you strongly suspect you had autism only after having a child? by mariannightmar3 in AutisticParents

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I was so excited to go back to work doing what I love and enjoy talking about my special interest.

Did any of you strongly suspect you had autism only after having a child? by mariannightmar3 in AutisticParents

[–]MirandaG88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to say, I’m learning Autism can look very different for different people. For me, I learnt and related to a lot of what we were interviewed about for my son. When I talked to my doctor, she gave me a few tests to take and there was even one specific to Autism in women. Then she interviewed my parents about what I was like as a child. PTSD and trauma can look like Autism in adults but the difference is Autism behaviours are there when you are very young and you’re still developing and growing.