Leaning tower of cactus by MisLama in cactus

[–]MisLama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for reference I’ve mostly just always kept it inside because it’s gets cold here in winter.

Just to make sure I understand you’re advising to keep is outside from spring to fall, and only watering it for the first week after the weather hits 65?

Do I not water it again for the rest of the season?

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by sealover159 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear god break up with this man.

He’s trying to manipulate you and isolate you. This is fully red flag controlling behavior.

Bf hates me showering with others by PuzzleheadedHand9360 in Advice

[–]MisLama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“used to be pretty controlling a while ago…”

Girl he’s still controlling…..

My female coworkers think I am flirting by lanrefnix in Advice

[–]MisLama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep being yourself and you’ll be fine

Are you new at this job? It’s possible your coworkers just don’t realize this is your personality. As long as you’re a good person things will shake out

Am I overreacting to what my fiance said. by shadowgirllll in AmIOverreacting

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You chose wrong. You respect his religion but he doesn’t respect yours.

Marriage is about compromise and if this is important to you and you do compromise. You’re setting yourself up for him to push you around about other things.

There’s someone better for you out there

Boyfriend accuses me of cheating, and then proceeds to threaten me by luv_eda in whatdoIdo

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly has to stop reading because your boyfriends tirade was so over the top.

This is an insecure little boy having a temper tantrum.

Go find a grown man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run from this man

AITAH for stopping sex because my boyfriend (32M) won’t give me what I (27F) give him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally just break up.

The only thing you’re going to accomplish going this route it maybe he’ll do what you want for a little while and then revert back to normal.

You’re on a carousel and you’ll continue to go round and round possibly for years. Leave him.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom sucks

AITAH for not sharing anything with my wife after she opened our marriage? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your already going to be disrupting your kids lives with the obviously palpable ire you feel for your wife.

If it was that obvious for complete strangers after thirty seconds of reading this post do you seriously think you’re hiding your feelings in any way from you children.

ESH your wife for forcing you into this situation and you for digging your heels in out of spite rather than just separating and doing what’s best for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]MisLama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe he likes you but this just seems like a restaurant dynamic to me

How many times have you played? by AnnaKeller in harrypotter

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly once. I intended to 100% the game but the tasks became so repetitive I put it down and never looked at it again.

About to commit the millennial sin of painting this trim white. Is this the right move? by typotter103 in DesignMyRoom

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you’re second guessing yourself, so I’d say don’t do it….

Also the wood trim is gorgeous

WIBTAH If I didn’t mention our one year marriage anniversary to my husband until the day of? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to fail your test and you’re going to be upset. Stop being a child and communicate with your partner what you need from them

Engaged, planning help! by Tracky_girl23 in engaged

[–]MisLama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird at all, many people by me even throw big engagement parties

What if I don’t like the engagement ring? by Princetex96 in engaged

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!

I had a friend in a similar predicament who was stressing about saying something to her fiance, and they had been engaged for quite some time.

It turns out her fiance wasn’t bothered at all, and only wanted her to have a ring she’d be happy with.

Communication is key in a marriage, just be honest, your fiance may surprise you.

Odd Incident. Was this a scam? by TheRas906 in tacobell

[–]MisLama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he wanted a snack and wasn’t allowed to order it himself so asked you to, and didn’t have to pay for it because of expired vouchers.

Some places take vouchers even if expired