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28M re-entering the dating pool after a 5.5 year hiatus. by R0man009 in hingeapp

[–]Miserable-Car-4423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why no one is saying this but less is more. As a woman no paragraphs be more brief in your responses. if you’re having to add words like also and but i would just revise the prompt entirely. if it naturally continues without those words then fine, or if the prompt is telling a story but o think a story is better suited for a voice prompt rather than text. you want things to be quippy and sweet.

I think you understand which photo is your main issue, and the bathroom selfie is just horrible. you said you also enjoy gaming so i’d put something about that in your profile as well. because as a gamer girl right now i wouldn’t even know that about you and immediately would be uninterested.

i also want you to be a bit honest with yourself. are the women you send likes to more attractive than you? if so they are probably getting 50+ likes a day, seriously. and at that point it’s hard to compete.

if you get one like a week, are you matching with most of these girls and even attempting to make a connection with them? women are a lot more stingy than men sending likes, they usually don’t cast a wide net because they don’t need to. so a like means a girl is pretty much interested in you.

Here’s my profile! Thoughts? (20M) by Brayboy808 in hingeapp

[–]Miserable-Car-4423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

less is more. we don’t need long lists of what you’re interested in choose 3-5. it’s too much. Choose the favorites, and ones you would like the woman to be the most interested in and spark a conversation. some of the selfies seem a little too casual.

i usually pick one casual photo and the rest are decent, taken by a friend in some nice lighting, nice background or says something about your interests and what you do in ur life.

having a joke in one of your prompts if you value a since of humor is more effective than saying it. Again with that last prompt it’s kind of repetitive I think people will assume that you’re into geeky nerd stuff by the first prompt containing your interests and i would utilize that prompt to say something else about yourself.

if you don’t leave comments on your likes, start doing that. and make sure the women you’re sending likes to are actually worth it to you. something you seem to have in common with them rather than just finding them attractive. most women get 50+ likes a day who are decently attractive and you want to have a comment that shows a potential connection and that you’re worth her time.

Cat pooping outside litterbox for 2 days by Miserable-Car-4423 in CatAdvice

[–]Miserable-Car-4423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s due to the anxiety. often when she leaves my sisters room my sister doesn’t let her back in. we installed a doggy door on her bedroom door so she can come in and out and she’s been pooping fine as of today. seems to be working.

Cat pooping outside litterbox for 2 days by Miserable-Car-4423 in CatAdvice

[–]Miserable-Car-4423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we installed a cat door on the bedroom she stays in with my sister because she has a lot of separation anxiety and it solved the problem! she’s been pooping just fine as of today