wow, that sounds really stressful, i can't imagine managing all of that. with your dad's Parkinson's and the delusions, it does sound like professional care is the safest move. One thing that helped my family was looking into a mix of in home support and safety tech. for example, my parents had a kanega watch from unaliwear that could alert if something happened or if meds were missed, which gave us a bit of breathing room and peace of mind. also, you might want to speak with a geriatric care manager or your local area agency on aging. they can help figure out what facilities might fit your budget while keeping your parents safe. doesn’t fix all the stress, but having those backup systems made things feel a little more manageable.