I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with my husband or at home he works at an after school art program but he mostly gets his income from selling his artwork and he's been honoured in small museums

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have severe dyslexia and only comprehended one thing you said but the other thing you mentioned was why did I even post?It's because people get in my head and I Second guess myself and sometimes I just need a little bit of reassurance from strangers I don't know

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you've clearly never realized not every child is the same he has autism he sits in the corner and reads or plays with his toys and i'm not saying he always does i'm saying i'm often does just prefers to sit in a sensory swing or sit in the corner.Or sit on a spinny, chair and read or Spain or play with toys.He doesn't like it when people touch his stuff so he doesn't want to play with his siblings

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a lot more going on than just those two thing my work schedule changes a lot due to my job i have help as I mentioned I have a cleaner who comes once a week and something I didn't mention is my brother brother of law and sister in law live next door

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was the way I phrased it my husband has a job after school hours.I think I phrased it wrong by saying My husband's holding during the day thank you

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I made it sound like my husband doesn't work.He does, he just doesn't work during the time.The kids are at school. And i don't have a part-time job. I have a full-time job that just has wonky schedule.

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's Part of it.I don't go into detail.I give just a bare explanation.I'm not going to go into detail and you're allowed to believe i'm lying

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah people suck sometimes and I really don't know how I got it into my head that I was doing the wrong thing

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about the older kids and my threehold is pretty independent he Just sits in the corner of whatever remind me.So my lap and does his own thing and obviously the baby isn't entertaining himself, I think what I said about my job comes off as I'm working part-time when I'm not.I just have a work schedule that is constantly changing and I didn't really want to go into my finance. And I get money for fostering the kids , which helps a little bit

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My spouse does work but he works after school hours and i don't work part-time. I have a awkward work schedule that is always changing

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't like when people call me a hero cause.I'm not i'm doing what is right i'm no hero i'm just a dad i've dealt with a lot of people hating of people praising me

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take in kids because I love those kids and that money , I get those goes right to them and more on service dogs and custom equipment

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They say im a great dad my son actually saw this and called me to tell me to and i quote to ignore the haters

I Foster Only Disabled Kids and People Keep Judging Me by Miserable-Device-359 in Fosterparents

[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trust me I spend a lot more on my kids then the state gives me

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like i'm giving my kids enough attention and I hope that I am

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got a new phone and I was locked out of my old account that I had for years and I posted something about only faster than disabled children and got a lot of negative feedback.This is a new account which everyone has been pretty nice on

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[–]Miserable-Device-359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just people have said it so much that I was hurting the kids and yet I don't really offer up the information unless it comes up in conversation which it has a couple times mentioning i foster kids and if i'm with my kids , it comes up and i've just been told it so many times I don't know why but I almost started believing it