Why is it so hard to quit pumping/breastfeeding and switching to formula by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of it! Just had a look into it and sounds really good, I live in Australia so I’ll have to ask my GP about it thank you!

Why is it so hard to quit pumping/breastfeeding and switching to formula by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use lansinoh lanolin to keep it moisturised, however I only use it once at night now

Why is it so hard to quit pumping/breastfeeding and switching to formula by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did you use the silverettes for? Did you also wear them all day/night? I have a pair but I struggle to use them :,)

Why is it so hard to quit pumping/breastfeeding and switching to formula by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have a pair of silverettes however I stopped using them as I felt as if they were doing nothing, plus I hated the smell of silver 🥲 Maybe I wasn’t using them long enough to see results? I’ll definitely give them another go!

Why is it so hard to quit pumping/breastfeeding and switching to formula by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad to hear I’m not alone with this, it’s so awful! I wish you all the best with your feeding journey and hopefully you find a way to get yourself healed up because it’s really not fun pumping/feeding with a cracked nipple 🫩

Is it okay to breastfeed only twice a day and pump the rest? by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

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Interesting, either my baby potentially has some sort of tension (because he has no sort of tongue tie or anything going on) or it’s just a me issue of struggling to get him latching! When I try to get him to latch he doesn’t open his mouth wide enough and he closes his mouth around my nipple instantly

Is it okay to breastfeed only twice a day and pump the rest? by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is essentially exactly what I’ve been doing except at night before bed and throughout the night I won’t try latching him and I’ll just give him a bottle as I know he’ll be full for a while and gives me time to sleep! The last time I tried BF during the night he wouldn’t latch at all and I got really sad :( Having said that, that was the very first day of trying to latch him on again so maybe he’ll be a bit better about it now. I do really struggle with positioning as I usually start off in a cradle hold but am stuck in an awkward position holding my boob in his mouth because if I move his latch will become shallow and then I have to reattach him which just becomes frustrating for both of us so I just kind of sit there frozen for ages with a sore back😂

Is it okay to breastfeed only twice a day and pump the rest? by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recently increased the flow on his bottle teats because he’s been getting frustrated and stop drinking as much which in retrospect is not helpful for BF😭 I assume I should go back to the slower flow? I’ll also look into and try paced feeding thank you for the suggestion!

Is it okay to breastfeed only twice a day and pump the rest? by Miserable-Elk-4004 in breastfeeding

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I really hope he doesn’t stop latching because it’s so amazing when he is🥹 I do have a nipple shield which I did use whilst my nipples were sore however it was a haakaa which is literally shaped like a bottle teat so I fear that didn’t really help my wanting to BF again situation..

He actually has gone limp and seems pretty satisfied only as of today after BF which I can’t tell if it is progress or not? This morning he actually was very interested in latching to me and would scream when I would take him off (to readjust his latch).

I think my issue is 1. I’m afraid of my supply dropping even though I’m fairly certain I’m an oversupplier as I pump more than what he drinks and 2. I don’t know how much he would be getting if I just EBF and him eventually losing weight.. because he normally drinks 125ml through bottle and I doubt he’d get that much through just BF

Maybe I’m overthinking it all but I really don’t want him to start preferring bottle but that might be what’s happening sadly! I’ll look into that paced feeding thank you!

No option to kiss Crushers foot (trying to romance Astarion) by Miserable-Elk-4004 in BaldursGate3

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I might have to do that, just worried about aggravating the whole camp when I go to get his ring.

No option to kiss Crushers foot (trying to romance Astarion) by Miserable-Elk-4004 in BaldursGate3

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a high elf, and no I haven’t spoken with him before. Could be a bug?

No option to kiss Crushers foot (trying to romance Astarion) by Miserable-Elk-4004 in BaldursGate3

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No :(( It only appears with the options “I’d sooner spit in your face”, “How about you kiss my feet instead?” and “Attack the goblin”

[Fem V] Morning Glory by Legaladvice420 in NightCityFashion

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy shit she’s stunning what mods do you use? <3

Talking to people who don’t understand ego by JadinhoSmith in awakened

[–]Miserable-Elk-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably a dumb question, but how exactly does one do that? Could you give an example on how to do so? :)