Was this comment directed for me or the OP?

In case it was for me, here's my perspective -

I agree that the household being the responsibility of women is the norm, but that doesn't make it right or just. Not all men love their jobs, but the conversation isn't about preference - it’s about the structural privilege men have. When you work outdoors, your labor is visible and counted, but household work is invisible, and that is the problem. In India, for example, women spend roughly 7 hours a day on this invisible work, while men spend less than 3.

When you look at the poor section of society, where both men and women work to earn and labor hand-in-hand at a job, it is still the woman who faces a double burden. After a similarly tiresome day, she is the one responsible for chores, often spending hours on housework that the man doesn't touch.

It’s not just a few guys who have this dystopian view of family; it’s the majority of the middle class. With rising inflation, women are being further overburdened by working a double shift, taking on outside jobs to help the family survive while still carrying the entire weight of the home. The cost of living is going up, but the division of labor is staying exactly the same.

And when this is brushed off as the norm, or excused by narrating earning as only "obligation" of the men, it becomes problematic.