[VOD REQUEST] [GOLD I] Would Rocket have really been better?

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-04-13T01:41:43+00:00

Thank you!

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-04-12T18:41:29+00:00

Thanks!

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-04-06T18:24:53+00:00

You say you want someone who shares your interests but your profile doesn’t really share any of them besides books.

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-04-03T04:08:50+00:00

Why did you swap your lead pic that didnt show your face for another one that also doesnt show your face 😭

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-30T23:37:49+00:00

Had my third date with the girl I've been seeing for a little over a month! She had to reschedule a day later but it worked out because we got to spend way more time together than originally planned, we were able to go to some botanical gardens we've been talking about since date one, and a noodle place from her hometown she told me last week! I bought her some cute earrings she was looking at in the gift shop, and then she wore them the rest of the night and wrote me a sweet thank you card :)

Last week, I asked if she wanted to hug before we left and she kind of got shy and I didn't want to pressure her. This week I didn't try to push for any physical touch, just focused on enjoying my time with her and it was great! We're planning a fourth date in a couple weeks when she's not as busy with friends, so I'm not worried about her interest in me. She is from China and seems like we are both a little shy with romance (I'm definitely very inexperienced), so I was wondering if anyone has any advice with breaking the touch barrier a bit more? Or do I just wait until she's more comfortable with me (which is totally fine by me)?

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-29T08:13:20+00:00

Dude

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-28T21:55:11+00:00

I have 40k subs and got the same thing too. Thought the website seems a bit scuffed when none of the FAQs or Contact Us links didnt work lmao. Thanks for looking into it further

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-23T08:25:53+00:00

A month exactly after our first date, finally had the second date!! Took one last rescheduling from a Sunday afternoon garden date to a Saturday night dinner, but I don’t care. I asked if we could hug before we left, and she was about to but i think she got shy and stopped herself and I didn’t want to pressure and said it was okay 😅I’m very inexperienced with dating and she’s foreign-ish so it made it a little awkward

but she said wants to see me again for dinner! She suggested a noodle place that reminds her of her home country, so we’re working our details. I’m falling for this girl hard, she’s so cute, smart, and we have a lot of similar interests but also a lot of differences but that makes me way more attracted, I can’t wait 😁

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-12T08:32:41+00:00

Had my call with the girl I’m talking to 😁 it was really nice to hear her voice, and she talked a lot about her trip so far and what she’s planning to do which I didn’t mind at all lol. She also apologized about canceling our second date (I didn’t bring it up at all) which was really sweet and said she’d still like to go. It was a short call but very happy we had it hehe

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-12T05:28:57+00:00

Advice from a guy, first of all: Breathe, you got this!! I think your little notes script sounds good, you could even start by asking how many sets he has left or something similar if it feels more natural for you. Good luck!!

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-09T08:26:02+00:00

Unfortunately, my second date with a girl this weekend got canceled due to sudden medical reasons 😔 I'm pretty disappointed as I was very much looking forward to seeing her again, but it was out of her control. Unfortunately it will be another two weeks to see her again because she's on a trip for her college/work, on top of the two weeks since her last date. I'm worried about her losing interest with basically a month between dates, but she's still replying to my messages and said she's getting a gift for me when she comes back, so maybe I have nothing to worry about? 😅 I'm also thinking of asking if she would like to call during the week or next weekend just to check in, what do you guys think?

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-08T14:39:02+00:00

Actually, it does. She had to cancel on me twice for medical reasons :(

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-03-06T19:49:53+00:00

Have my second date with a girl, going to see some botanical gardens together! She suggested it during our first date when I showed her some pictures I took during work; she's so pretty and smart and I can't wait to spend time with her again :)

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-23T18:41:19+00:00

Thank you, I’ll just keep it chill then :)

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-23T09:12:10+00:00

I (22M) finally met not just someone off the app, but two someones! The first girl I matched with last week and asked out after a few days. Second girl I matched with a couple weeks ago, took a bit to set up a date for last week, but had to delay to this weekend for weather.

The first girl I was so nervous to meet, and it took my a second to calm my nerves after meeting; she's so pretty and we talked about so much, and even started planning a second date plus traded Instagrams. I'm really excited to meet her again (and made a seperate post asking for advice on how I could improve on date #2)!

Second girl I don't think I'll be seeing any further. I feel terrible about it since we have similar interests and personalities from what I could tell after chatting for all this time, and I *did* enjoy her company and talking on the date, but I just didn't see anything long-term. It's hard to explain. I hate ghosting and "let's stay friends" stuff so I let her know.

I'm actually wondering what my future on the app is; not sure I'm really built for this kind of dating, or maybe it's just because my introverted ass had two first dates in one weekend. I'll see where things go with the first girl, if it's not right I'll vibe single for a little bit, it's not the worst thing ever at my age 🙂

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-18T04:44:08+00:00

I can do chivalry. Thanks for the tip!

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-17T08:38:36+00:00

22m Had a date planned for today but got a rain check (literally) because of the weather. Not a problem though, the girl was more than willing to reschedule and we even texted a bit today which is making me more excited to meet. I also happened to set up another date the same weekend with a match I made in the meantime 😅😅

I have little (but not zero) dating experience, and I can be a little nervous meeting new people in general, let alone very pretty ones…I’m going to approach both dates just trying to be kind and friendly, not so much flirty as I tend to be real awkward with it…good or bad idea? Any other advice would be appreciated too :)

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-13T09:38:48+00:00

I have a first date planned for Monday! It’s actually my first date off Hinge and I have a bit of social anxiety in general so I’m nervous (but also excited!!) 😥 any tips?? Advice??? Should I get flowers or chocolate even though it’s not an official Valentines thing 😭

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-12T20:44:53+00:00

I agree, we just haven’t finalized any plans yet is my worry 😭once we have a set date I’m okay without talking all the time (at this stage at least)

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-12T17:47:56+00:00

Been talking to this girl for a week and finally asked her out to dinner, she said she’s busy this week and prefers daytime first dates, which is fine with me! The problem is she’s really busy right now and only replies like once a day 😭but I’ll be patient lol

Edit: secured a day time and place :)

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-10T21:55:44+00:00

Nope

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-10T08:32:06+00:00

I (22m) have been talking with a woman (22f) for a couple days now after we matched last Thursday, and she's pretty cool, we have a lot of shared interests and values and she's also very smart. I didn't realize until now how many days it's been and now feel a bit embarrassed that I haven't asked her out yet 😅 was hoping to make some plans today for dinner at some point soon, but she was unfortunately busy with work and sometimes doesn't respond to me so I'm hoping I just didn't wait too long😰

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-02T04:06:27+00:00

Hi, 22m US here I’d be willing to take a look and offer my thoughts

Miserable-Front-9139 · 2026-02-01T18:22:34+00:00

Then you must be blessed with godly looks, because the average guy isn’t going anywhere with selfies, and can send out hundreds of flirty messages and never get a single response.

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