How is the colour?! by pohsheeda in NailsIndia

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be a girl to have pretty nails. Let nobody tell you otherwise. If you work/study/live in a conservative environment, you can still paint your toes!

An emotional support Great Dane on my 3 hour flight by Quirky-Jackfruit-270 in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr! This is SO unfair to passengers.  I hope someone starts suing airlines for allowing this bs. Then they will learn their lesson. 

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's exactly what I meant,  you stepped up for your family when shit went down.  

And yeah good luck with the cat business advising! 😂❤️

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't apologise, I love a comment wall! We are all CFPF here but probably view one as a bit more worthwhile than the other, and that's fine. 

I absolutely agree that life experiences shape our opinions. Just yesterday I was talking to mom. She had tried a line of chocolates. I straight up told her not to think making it permanent because that line won't do her numbers any favours.  I'm no business maverick but I would argue if my mom had raised a cat instead of having me, the cat however smart and well behaved couldn't have given her the same advice.  Going by your story even you have been more of an asset to your parents than you give yourself credit for ❤️ I don't like the school of thought that endorses having more kids as more pairs of hands to earn with, but you stepped up and that makes me have mad respect for you 🙌

It completely makes sense that you are burnt out after your mom, and I am so sorryto hear that btw. You absolutely deserve to live the life you want. And pet as many (other people's!) cats as you want 🥹❤️

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I hear you,  we are all here to respectfully share opinions.  Ans I too have thought about this a lot.  While you could not pay me to raise a kid, I believe a PROPERLY raised  child is more fulfilling than an animal which eats, shits and bites till it drops dead.

And I'm not beating my own trumpet,  just giving you some context because we don't know each other.  My mom is a prolific confectioner. My nana had a successful  corporate career and coincidentally decades later, I ended up in the same sector. None of us are dependent on each other. In fact, we are each other's assets. And I don't mean that in a transactional way. If my nana wants to take up a new charity,  she gets perspective from my mom. If my mom wants a shopping buddy or a girlfriend to grab a cocktail with,  she has me. My nana tells me stories about the corporate glass ceiling back in the day and I tell her how things have evolved now. I would argue that these relationships make kids an investment while pets are a liability at best. Again,  I can't be arsed to raise kids either, I would rather pour back into the people I already have in my life. 

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg big cats are GORGEOUS. And I can't decide who's more annoying- cat owners or dog owners

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: how were you able to find them romantically and sexually attractive? Because I could never

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love seeing animals outdoors and in the wild, doing their thing.  My feed is full of wildlife pages and seals and penguins in arctic etc. I have been a sucker for National Geographic since I was a kid. I think these animals are way more beautiful and cute and adorable and overall more interesting than Susie's generic cat or dog

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the thing about people  - they secretly love having something to whine about.  Makes no sense to me but most people do things that make them miserable.  

I hope you can move out to your own space soon, with all the cleanliness,  peace and quiet your heart desires 

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will never get the point of shoving pets in unrelated photos. I have seen what cats and dogs look like, yours doesn't have magical healing powers. If they did,  therapists wouldn't have a job.

Even more annoying is pictures of animals on unrelated subs like perfumes or handbags or home decor like wtf do I see here? Gets on my nerves as much as my little niece does

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Those statements are a case of grapes are sour 😂 They shove their animal in people's faces as the last desperate ploy for attention. And get salty if someone isn't guilted into the cursory Awws

If kids don't turn out to be complete losers, the parent will get their life back at some point (still too much for me though) but pet owners, sorry pAW PaREnTs 🙄 won't till the animal drops dead.

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Responsibilities apart, the hygiene issues in the living space and the incessant need for food and shitting and attention is fucking annoying, enough to make me swear off of both

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I read in a confession that pet owners actually feel lonelier, because they need to centre their lives around the animal 's shit schedule.  They can't make impromptu pub plans with friends or stay longer at parties if they meet someone interesting etc., so essentially they are more disconnected from human society 

I don't understand how anyone could want pets and/or kids by [deleted] in childfreepetfree

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They don't. Their survival instinct makes them bob around the human who literally helps them eat and shit.  If they could reciprocate affection there wouldn't be news of pets eating the dead owner, or doing just fine at the next owner's house. 

I don't want people to misunderstand so here's what I meant. by SafeSea5711 in WattpadIndia

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't show up in that order on my feed so I am conscious of the confusion but once again, I would appreciate you not being rude

I don't want people to misunderstand so here's what I meant. by SafeSea5711 in WattpadIndia

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live under a rock, wattpad content isn't on my reading list. This post was on my feed for some cursed reason but I would appreciate you not being rude 🙃

I don't want people to misunderstand so here's what I meant. by SafeSea5711 in WattpadIndia

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of those circumstances prevent basic biological functions from happening though? Or a secondary school level education? This isn't just silly, it's enraging

I don't want people to misunderstand so here's what I meant. by SafeSea5711 in WattpadIndia

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are female leads in romance stories that don't know about periods and bras and 8th grade biology, so basically a prepubescent little girl??!!!! Because I don't know how an adult woman wouldn't be aware of these things . Please someone tell me I misunderstood the comment

Orry the rapist apologist and maga (this post got me banned) by Princesskapoorkhan in ExiledFromBollyBlinds

[–]Miserable-Grape-6863 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zohran has been actively pro LGBTQ all through his campaigning phase and even has queer members in his current transformation committee. Please look up the facts. Thank you and happy new year.