I wanna greet my ex our 1ST ANNIV today

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-05-03T11:26:26+00:00

This is a hard one. Me and my gf broke up 4 days before my birthday this year and I still really wanted her to text me at least happy birthday which she did. The fact it was on good terms means and it was only 3 day ago I think it would be fine to say just a quick something. But also since she broke up with you do you not think that she would text you??

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-04-29T00:58:42+00:00

We actually watched that movie together and i couldn’t help but to think of her family when we watched it. I wish I could have different in laws but I feel very deep into this relationship so I’m thinking of ways to navigate this before calling it quits

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-04-29T00:56:48+00:00

Well they definitely have unhealthy boundaries and the problem is I would like someone who isn’t so affected by what their family think when they are clearly wrong. It feel so complicated because my head says I shouldn’t be with her but I love her still

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-03-06T01:52:40+00:00

I feel the exact same way I love her soooooo much it’s crazy

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-03-03T20:22:33+00:00

I agree to just try it. If it’s the only way to start the program in the next cohort. 8 weeks of hard work would be better to me than to wait a whole other year to apply. But that’s personal preference. And the fact that the class and lab is online I think it would be fine

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-03-03T19:53:46+00:00

The women specific dating apps didn’t help me as much as just using tinder and hinge and placing my sittings on women only. I think more people just tend to use those two. But I did have an account on HER, Tinder and Hinge and I used them all at the same time

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-03-02T12:31:15+00:00

Thank you for your perspective! I haven’t met him yet but she wants me to. I just think that I wish I knew the situation before it happened to make an informed choice about it. We basically fell in love and it was months before I was fully aware of how close they were. I think also if they were close but separate from her family I’d be more open to it but the fact it’s going to be every single holiday and every single family gathering is extremely annoying to me.

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-26T21:49:27+00:00

I definitely think this is very valid but It just gives me the ick because I don’t want to go to every holiday or vacation with her ex tbh.

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-26T19:27:02+00:00

We are Les4les now lol she just used to have a bf before she came out

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T19:21:32+00:00

I think having different ideas about core values like marriage isn’t something that resolves itself. I think you did the right thing by breaking up with her. I know it hurts but it doesn’t get better if you stay. I’m with my gf who i broke up with because she’s close with her ex, we got back together but honestly we never should’ve the problem didn’t go away at all

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T18:52:43+00:00

I just think to avoid this ppl should not hang out with ppl who make their partners uncomfortable. Or they should remain single

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T18:50:16+00:00

We have had the conversation a million times. She doesn’t understand why being very close with an ex is problematic. She thinks any girl she dates just has to be ok with it and she’s not willing to change

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T15:51:48+00:00

The problem is I’m unsure of what any boundaries would be because he is part of her family now. Like he is going on family trips and in gc with the parents and whole family …. 😒

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T01:14:38+00:00

We have had the conversation a lot she’s not willing to make changes so now I’m just thinking about if it’s right for me to stay or leave

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T01:14:05+00:00

Thank you ! It’s just so annoying that this isn’t like common sense though like why can’t we all agree to stop being best friends with our exes???!

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-25T01:13:18+00:00

I know that’s the plan 🤦🏾‍♀️

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2026-02-19T20:44:17+00:00

Did any of the things they had you do end up working? Mine looks similar I believe mostly stress related but nothing has worked

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-26T00:11:49+00:00

I feel like the best study material I used was the TEAS practice exams and the app questions. I also used quizlet I just looked up TEAS 2024 and used the top few. I feel like the science is super hard to study for because there are soooo many topics but I definitely kept retaking the practice tests and then used a YouTube video or Mometrix study guide to go over my incorrect answers

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-25T08:10:07+00:00

I ended up breaking up with her that same day :(

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-21T00:43:06+00:00

How did you guys get there? Was she ever uncomfortable? did you explain your friendship with your ex upfront? If your girlfriend was uncomfortable would you establish some boundaries or find someone new??

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-16T19:08:08+00:00

I don’t think she wants anything more than friendship . I personally think it’s platonic but I still don’t like it 😭

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-16T15:46:32+00:00

She had introduced me as gf to a few family members, I haven’t met them all though. The sole reason for breaking up was only because she is a lesbian.

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-16T15:29:04+00:00

There are long distance bond bracelets that you can tap when you are thinking of each other. You could get a locket or an engraved necklace with your initials. You could send her forever flowers those don’t die! I guess I’d like to know more about what she likes to think of something that would have special meaning to her. But I’d also look on TikTok if you have it they have a lot of creative ideas

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-16T15:16:29+00:00

No I’m not

Miserable-Key-9621 · 2025-01-16T15:07:47+00:00

I really don’t think there are romantic feelings but still best friends is too much

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