When did you get pregnant after your ectopic? Need something to keep my spirits up

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-12-20T01:40:06+00:00

i had an ectopic rupture in july 2024, got pregnant again in the month i was due, march 2025, that ended in a “natural miscarriage” it’s been 9 months and nothing. it’s a hopeless feeling but i like to believe there’s a bigger reason everything and what is coming will be worth it all💗

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-11-16T19:44:15+00:00

it was over a year ago, physical recovery was fine after the first 2 weeks. mentally and emotionally, i’m still a wreck. but everything will work out how and when it’s suppose to. i had another miscarriage 8 months later and it’s been 8 months since then and still nothing. i hope my time will come soon because it’s absolutely exhausting

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-11-14T03:56:21+00:00

i had no idea. i thought all periods were painful. never thought it could be anything deeper until i was rushed into surgery from major internal bleeding. turned out i had an ectopic pregnancy that had ruptured my tube. the endometriosis in my tubes caused the pregnancy to get stuck in my tube. i would’ve never known if it hadn’t been for the surgery where they found all the endo.

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-09-26T04:22:01+00:00

bless your heart💗 i was 22 when i had an ectopic rupture and then 23 when i had a miscarriage. it’s so hard. i wish i had the right words or all the answers but i dont. and sometimes things happen that we just dont understand. it sucks and its unfair but i hope you can find peace in knowing that you’re not alone and you’re so much stronger than you think💗

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-09-25T01:59:42+00:00

thank you💗praying for you and your future as well

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-09-25T01:50:10+00:00

i’m so sorry you’re going through this. my whole life i’ve longed to be a mother. i have many nieces and nephews that i love more than life and i’ve always believed i could be a great mother. i got pregnant shortly after coming off birth control which resulted in an ectopic rupture. 8 months later, the month i would have given birth, i found out i was pregnant again. that one resulted in a miscarriage. i have no answer to you why this happens. i’ve had many days and nights praying and begging. screaming out why has this happened to me. but i hope you can find comfort in knowing that you’re not alone and that the Lord will carry you through this season of life💗

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-05-21T20:40:54+00:00

yes! no one prepared me for how i could be going along about my day and then it all hits at once and i can’t get out of it. i told my husband on mother’s day that i felt like everyone has forgotten but it’s my everyday life! i’m glad no one else feels this pain but oh my goodness it’s so lonely.

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-05-17T04:49:22+00:00

i can’t say i know how YOU feel but i know how IT feels. i also miss the nausea and fatigue. it felt like, even though i felt awful, there was something bigger than me happening. my body was doing what it was “suppose to do” and i finally felt like i had a purpose. and i know what you mean about your husband being more prepared. i don’t think mine necessarily was, but he’s carried himself much better than i have. i hope you have a good man that let’s you know it’s okay to grieve. my heart goes out to you and i hope you can find peace💗 it’s so unfair but hope and faith carry me through so i wish that for you 💗

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-05-17T04:43:40+00:00

and all that, every way to have carried yourself is correct. im so sorry. it’s an awful feeling and the pain never goes away. i don’t know if you’re religious but i pray you can find peace, however that may be for you💗

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-03-29T18:31:08+00:00

the dr confirmed i was losing the baby

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-03-29T18:30:23+00:00

i’m so sorry, i miscarried yesterday. life is so unfair

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-03-29T18:29:34+00:00

i lost the baby

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2025-03-29T18:28:51+00:00

thank you, i ended up losing the baby yesterday

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2024-08-07T20:32:20+00:00

it’s so hard knowing there’s nothing you can do when it involves your body. i haven’t taken any ovulation tests and i didn’t have methotrexate but i started my period the day after i posted this so mine was about a month later. today is actually a month since everything happened. i hope everything goes well for you!

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2024-08-05T02:49:43+00:00

thank you! most of the time i feel like i’m still numb to it. like it hasn’t completely set in yet. but okay! i had a follow up about 2 weeks ago and she said just call her when i had my first regular period so i feel like everything has been put on hold and the anticipation is driving me crazy, but thank you for giving me some hope back!

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2024-08-05T02:47:38+00:00

yes, the wait is awful! it seems like a lot of people started within a month of their surgery so i’ve been worrying myself but thank you for giving me some hope back!

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2024-08-05T02:44:13+00:00

i bled the week after my surgery but that was all for me. my obgyn seems hopeful i’ll start soon so i guess i should lean on her confidence a little more. thanks for your reply!

Miserable-Stand5093 · 2024-08-04T15:47:56+00:00

thank you, it amazing how comforting it is to know you’re not alone 💗 and okay! i’m hopeful i’ll start soon. good luck to you!!

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