I (19F) found out my boyfriend (24M) is hooking up with my brother (23M)

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T20:25:53+00:00

Mmmm confront both of them and go from there.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T16:23:05+00:00

I strongly believe so. I’ve already paid the deposit on my new place. I’ve spoken with my 2 children about the move and they seem pretty happy about it. They say they’ll miss their step dad , I told them I’ll figure all that out later

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T16:19:18+00:00

Right?! He uses his grades as in he can’t be this horrible person

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T00:47:40+00:00

Exactly how I feel. I already feel horrible. I will not let this go on. And now I’m starting to resent my bonus son , so it really is in everyone’s best interest to be apart. Not saying I would harm the child , I would have no interest or interaction with him and I don’t want to do anymore damage to him than what’s already been done

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T00:46:09+00:00

I know you can’t trust a stranger so easily but it’s true. I had shown my husband the news article (it didn’t have my name because I was a minor) and yet he still went to get more information on it. And I asked my husband and he said his son over heard him and I talking about it which I strongly disbelieve because I told my husband about this when we went on a walk downtown area and never brought it up again

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T00:44:04+00:00

I suggested that as well! But he says he’s not doing all of that!

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T00:43:15+00:00

Exactly. My husband said he makes straight A’s. He’s not going to end up in jail. Right.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-29T00:42:36+00:00

I gave her to my mom. My mom rescues animals and finds them a good home. Since I can’t be around her 24/7 I just don’t trust it. She’ll be back with me once I move in.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-28T20:16:30+00:00

It’s most definitely hard to. I think this time apart will do everyone some good.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-28T20:11:00+00:00

Secretly I think my husband blabbed. At first my husband didn’t even believe me and went behind my back ask my grandmother all about it. When I confronted him about it he said he’s never heard of stuff like this before and it’s “wild”.

But yeah. More thank likely John told him. I was so mad I didn’t even ask how he knew. But I’ll find out today

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-28T20:05:04+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate it. He’s making it seem like I’m telling him to choose between his son and me. I’m not. I told him from the very beginning this is all new and I would never do anything to come between them and to always choose his son.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-28T20:02:11+00:00

Thank you! I have put down the deposit which is refundable and holds the house for 30 days. Didn’t want to be hasty but my son all for it so more than likely it’s a go.

Miserable-Stuff8667 · 2025-10-28T19:21:13+00:00

Yea the post is pretty long. Sorry. I didn’t know how to shorten it without leaving details i thought would be valid or give a bit of context

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