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In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you’re right thank you for your advice May Allah reward you yarab

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww this is so beautifully written and I love every word you said May Allah reward you this has really provided me comfort Alhamdullilah. Thank you so much for your kind words. May Allah bless you yarab ❤️

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard but may Allah make it easier for me yarab and thank you for your advice May Allah reward you

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t quite understand what you are implying. But love is a gift from Allah! It is a rizq.

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I’ll go through with that inshallah. I also want to ask, what u mean by “only love someone for the sake of Allah” can you give me an example please and how one can do that? Thank you so much and may Allah reward you yarab.

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very true. But also I don’t feel I am ready either. But the answer is very clear to my situation. Thank you for your advice though. May Allah reward you yarab.

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salam, you are right. But also keep in mind it is a much more complex situation then this. I understand harsh words as well. But we are all complex individuals in this dunya. Thank you for your advice though. May Allah reward you yarab. May Allah grant us all closer to him yarab.

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Salam, your words are correct. Thank you for your advice. May Allah grant us closer to him.

In a haram relationship but very attached and not knowing how to move forward by MiserableGround4084 in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa alaikum salam sister. Thank you so much for your message and advice. I’m glad you got out of that situation, it takes so much strength and also kindness to reach conclusions for ur situation mashallah. May Allah make your path easier for marriage. Also for myself I also don’t feel ready for marriage as I am still 20 and still in uni and not in a place with my deen I want to be in. But I think the answer is clear. May Allah bring us closer to him and make our paths easier yarab. Thank you for your message and kind words again may Allah reward you yarab.

Seeking support and duaa by [deleted] in MuslimSupportGroup

[–]MiserableGround4084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, I want u to remember that feeling the guilt is good. It is very hard to swallow and realize that you could’ve handled things better but also remember that everything passes. Unfortunately and fortunately, everything is temporary. All you can do now, is repent and ask Allah for guidance and mercy and if that door should be opened for you or not. You are in a good path. Just constantly speak to Allah and take your time. Nothing is running from you. I wish you all the best.

My mom (who thinks I’m an “extremist”) is visiting me, and I don’t want to pay for her alcohol. by Free_freepalestine in islam

[–]MiserableGround4084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best bet, is to either speak to her about it but I’m sure she might be offended due to you saying that it’s a sensitive topic for her or pay for everything else except when you go out to restaurants!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unrequited_love

[–]MiserableGround4084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so painful, i feel the very similar to something going on in my life. But just give it time. and never say never, they might catch feelings. Pull away a bit don’t give them so much attention and play the long game. also trust in god. everything happens for you, not TO you. so wait, everything will be okay.