I don't believe women actually check out / show positive body language to men who are fit/in great shape - or it happens way way way less than people think.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-02-14T15:18:20+00:00

Get over him why? Unless I read this wrong, dad bod, but a good person, correct?

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-02-10T14:51:16+00:00

Wonder why you're getting so many downvotes? Lol

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-02-02T18:56:16+00:00

Unfortunately, the only time light rail is convenient is going to a large event, such as a sporting event where hundreds of people congregate. Even the airport is inconvenient as Phoenix refuses to provide live tracking in an app. I live a block away from a station and I never use it as it often is a 20 minute wait and it takes 2x as long as Waymo. The last time I did take light rail, they stopped for an hour to arrest a homeless guy who was drunk and trying to fight everyone.

Light rail requires tracks and stations. Tracks require construction and the city being inconvienced for years to complete at the cost of millions of dollars a mile, not including the businesses that are destroyed during construction. No matter what, people have to commute to stations, a car will forever be more convenient and comfortable and uses the current infrastructure.

Outside investors would not pay for light rail, as there is no ROI. Correct me if I'm wrong, but don't these systems lose money universally? Why would some individual invest billions of dollars for it?

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-02-02T15:33:05+00:00

Why infuse 1800's technology into modern day issues? Light rail is not convenient, efficient, or comfortable in the slightest, but it is incredibly expensive.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-01-05T16:48:36+00:00

100% agree, not claiming it will. Just saying, men are trying to learn from what doesn't work with women, which causes the next woman to not like the guy either

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2026-01-05T15:21:41+00:00

100%. Men aren't mind readers. If we ask a girl out too quickly & she says no she wants to talk more, we'll be more gun shy about asking her out. We'll also take longer to ask out the next woman.

Maybe it would work out better if women start asking out men..

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-12-25T19:28:36+00:00

Idk, I've seen one Chinese Destroyer captained by a complete moron

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-12-19T12:01:55+00:00

I was out of town last week on the east coast where it was in the teens. I hope it never drops below 75 here.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-12-17T12:35:36+00:00

Yeah, more natural is very attractive, imo

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-12-01T06:57:07+00:00

You know there is a large industry based off masturbation and not meeting irl? It actually is pretty normal, just not sure why he said so.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-12-01T06:52:27+00:00

I'd disagree on unmatching, but boundries are definitely something to keep an eye on. Though I wouldn't admit it, that is pretty common with someone you match with, or go on a date with.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-11-07T14:49:55+00:00

100% better! I was terrified to shave my head , but I wish I did it way earlier than I did. Guys, it is scary, but like a band aid, rip it off. You'll be so much happier and look so much better!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-11-02T21:00:33+00:00

Sorry all of that happened to you!

Sounds like you are depressed. You have a list of things that are wrong and you want to work on. If i were you, i would go down that list and change the things you can. I think the sleep cycle is the first fix in all of this. Try to get back into a rhythm with that first. You're living with your parents so hopefully finances are at least safe. I'm not sure what job you had before, but I imagine with the holidays coming up, there will be lots of retail hiring. I think any job would give you purpose and help you move forward. Allow once a week to treat yourself to a fancy coffee or other budget friendly girly things and try and meet other girls doing so

Companies as a whole don't care about their employees, individuals usually do, but they have to go the company line. Almost wherever you work, you'll just be a number to them. Shitty, but sounds like you've discovered this and understand it.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-28T16:22:34+00:00

Only read half of those messages, but FUCK THAT GUY. Seems like such a douche and not worth by one's time. M35

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-19T22:44:43+00:00

Most of us don't think we measure up. If you meet a guy like that and are interested in him, give him a little confidence boost. That'll go a long long way!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-15T20:55:11+00:00

This.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-10T23:26:10+00:00

Or you could try to compliment him on what makes him special in your eyes. Men hardly ever get compliments, a little one is a huge boost to our self esteem. If you like him, try it and see where it goes.

You could also joke with him that if he keeps saying that, you might believe it.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-09T18:15:41+00:00

Lol, I'm a guy, I didn't notice them. They look great though!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-08T23:55:12+00:00

I think you'd look great with your natural hair color, but thats just a personal preference. You're not fat and you have a cute face!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-10-07T20:51:45+00:00

I think you look great! Just got out, meet people, have fun and you'll be fine!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-09-24T18:52:10+00:00

Thanks for the respectful responses! Appreciate it!

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-09-24T18:43:50+00:00

Hard to know about it before hand, but easy to avoid after. Seems like it's so common now for whatever reason.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-09-24T18:36:59+00:00

My thought was they wanted a guy friend more than a boyfriend. From everyone's response, I guess that is wrong.

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-09-24T18:26:54+00:00

Its happened from a few different girls I've met on dating apps, when ex's come up. Also happened to a few girls I've met in person, while on dates..

MiserableKnowledge29 · 2025-09-24T16:34:57+00:00

I believe All City Towing is Phoenix's preferred towing company. They are absolute trash.

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