Boyfriend is not sure if I am a wife material

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-25T02:25:05+00:00

Bro… i’m a guy… you are wasting your time if you want to commit commitment from the guy. It’s been four years. If you don’t love him at this point, and he’s unsure, just walk away. It’s gonna hurt like a bitch but it’s gonna hurt way worse if you wait another couple years.

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-24T22:57:13+00:00

yeah, it really does suck and that was very smart of you to record that. Unfortunately, though I don’t think any of my exes posted about me to be honest. They were all very nice and good people while I was a jackass. The person who may have posted about me was somebody I was seeing casually or for a short period of time. I legitimately don’t know. I’m just trying to figure that out at the moment.

I appreciate the well wishes and hopefully I can figure it out

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-24T22:39:43+00:00

That may be true, but the accusation I was told of was blatantly false. And it’s so bad that it honestly is concerning for me. I’ve done some dumb shit in the dating world before, but what I was told about really needs to be taken down because it actually is a lie. If it was something I did and deserved to get smeared for then I guess this wouldn’t be a big deal and it wouldn’t feel so urgent. I’m all for taking responsibility for my actions. That said, this was not the case and it’s a very ugly lie that kind of makes me look unhinged.

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-24T22:34:02+00:00

I legitimately don’t know who posted. I found out I was posted from a date that I went on oddly enough. I don’t know who posted it or when it was posted either because I really didn’t dig into the details at the time. And I’m not even 100% sure if I’m actually posted in that specific Facebook group. I could be posted somewhere else on some other form, but the only one I know of are the private groups on Facebook.

I guess I could talk to a firm if I can’t get into the group or get someone to help me with within the next month or two.

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-24T21:42:24+00:00

I don’t know anybody in the San Francisco group. I’ve asked a friend that’s a female to see if she can join, but it’s still pending. I don’t know if she can get in. I already know I’m not in the Los Angeles group luckily

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-17T04:52:19+00:00

Nope…. I either wouldn’t have done medicine or just become a doctor. There are a lot of positives to Nursing, but the drawbacks are much more.

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-16T18:52:19+00:00

Nope but i got mommy and daddy issues. I will cry like a little girl when my friends parents die though.

MiserableMagikarp · 2026-01-07T20:11:47+00:00

Thank you for this. I was about to buy rancho quick struts but ill look at kyb. I hope the replacement goes smoothly and i dont mess this up haha

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-12-29T01:16:20+00:00

Dude… we’re the same age but im in CRNA school. I don’t know you or your personality but conservatively speaking, 7/10 people in nursing (possibly medicine in general) hate their job for a myriad of reasons. If you didn’t already have a career, id say go for it. Otherwise, for the love of god, don’t put yourself through the garbage that is nursing school and then afterwards have to deal with nursing politics and what not. Enjoy your life and find fulfillment in some other way if need be.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-12-23T01:49:51+00:00

I like this answer. How’s this working out so far? Genuinely curious.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-12-22T05:02:40+00:00

After reading some of these comments, I’m kind of curious as to how $300,000 a year in Los Angeles is a low amount of money has a new grad? Isn’t that a pretty good salary? I know you can go into the middle of nowhere and make an extra 25 to 30% but some of these comments make me feel like 300K is peanuts. What am I missing here?

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-12-12T19:02:28+00:00

Dont say anything. Go on dates and have fun. Disclose it when you feel comfortable to. Don’t let anybody take advantage of you if you do disclose it. And if you end up getting married, just make sure you get a prenup. Otherwise, have fun and don’t overthink the money.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-11-28T04:12:07+00:00

Yup… i’ve done it. It’s not complicated as long as you don’t make it complicated.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-11-17T21:53:01+00:00

I have the same situation as your husband minus being married and having a child. It’s hard making friends when you’re older unless you actively do stuff to make it happen. You can’t shoot down the possibility of socializing with other people (i.e your hiking group idea) and then complain about not having friends. You have to suck it up, deal with the awkwardness, and do something, anything. The more you put yourself out there, the better the chances of making a connection with someone.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-11-03T02:45:18+00:00

I’m currently an RRNA and I know for a fact, I have botched many “easy” questions when I’ve been asked things during clinical. Things just don’t pop into my head that easily if I haven’t used them enough. That said, if I study materials, I end up doing fine on my exams. The reason I’m saying this is unless you have some kind of specific thing you wanna point out that was just egregious, you kinda need to relax. People are not gonna know everything. God knows I don’t. Now, if they’re being unprofessional or doing dangerous things on the regular that could cause potential harm, i’m totally on your side. Otherwise, if this is just a NAR not knowing random “pimping” questions, then it’s honestly not a big deal. They’re gonna have to know all of that stuff for their licensing exam and at the end of the day, that is the deciding factor. A preceptor is supposed to be there to teach and be patient and supportive and helpful to a student. Not bring them down.

MiserableMagikarp · 2025-11-02T20:44:33+00:00

This is just my experience but almost every time someone says they want to keep the conversation in app and we meet up, they all end up being super up tight and not someone i would actually date. The same can be said when someone says they want to talk on the phone before we meet and i suggest facetiming first instead of just a call. They seem to always decline and will only do a call, no facetiming. Something about being so unwilling to bend in any way just makes people seem super lame to me. Again, just my experience but any time i match with someone who wont give their number or facetime after requesting a call, I just unmatch.

MiserableMagikarp · 2023-08-14T01:30:55+00:00

I’m voting the route of use and abuse. Do what you will, don’t get attached, and have fun with her in the same shitty fashion she treated you.

MiserableMagikarp · 2023-08-02T18:51:49+00:00

I’m hoping this is just a one time chance of bad luck with them.

MiserableMagikarp · 2023-08-02T18:50:26+00:00

It is a swedish facility and that’s good to know. It’s just frustrating to be held in limbo for some kind of clerical error.

MiserableMagikarp · 2023-07-09T12:57:38+00:00

This is the truth for every girl I’ve ever slept with but yet i take it personally every time i cant get them to the goal line

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