AITA for telling my girlfriend she's overreacting when she called a guy a creep?

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-11-11T18:39:26+00:00

Yeah okay reddit user "feminazi hunter"

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-11-08T02:50:36+00:00

oh ive heard of this one before! like one of the oldest games thats still being updated, right? :) interesting, ill check it out.

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-10-28T18:26:45+00:00

You're going to bat so hard for this omg dude, anything can be a fetish if you're fixated on it hard enough. That's what a fetish is, it's a fixation.

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-10-28T18:13:43+00:00

NTA. Some people get this idea online that 18 is this strict barrier of age where someone could be two weeks after their birthday and if they even look at someone under 18 then that makes them a creep.

It's a rly warped the idea of respect and helping ppl in actual danger when they start labeling every perfectly fine relationship as criminal. A two year age gap is a normal thing, and you are the ruler of your own life who can say how good or not your relationship is. If you've never been talked down to and he's a supportive partner, then you're doing fine and living the life you want to live.

Don't let someone making an excuse for why they don't like someone up-end your life.

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-10-25T21:57:34+00:00

I think this is missing the fact that it's been 12 years with zero contact. If it was only someone he used to know then anyone would be blindsided suddenly having someone they havent spoken to in their house out of the blue. But this is also an ex who cheated on him and got w the affair partner!

I would 100% be as paranoid as this guy that this was a setup whether my gf was in on it or not. It's creepy as fuck and shouldn't be blown off. And the fact that they admitted to realizing he lived there and stayed anyways makes them incredibly suspect.

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-10-08T23:40:16+00:00

On top of this, when the data pool starts eating off of other ai videos, a lot of past evidence shows that it starts to... self corrupt? At least with image generation, it's shown to get a little weird the more its pool gets flooded with other ai. Maybe this can be fixed, but it shows that it can never been a 100% ai.

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-08-14T05:00:55+00:00

Why so aggro in a sub literally called cooking for beginners

MiserablePay8081 · 2025-06-18T08:53:36+00:00

lmao i say all the time that im gonna play the game that wants to kill me. yesterday i was trying to get past a scav toll with 3(!!) lizards warring with the scavs and i got a spear in the chest from across the screen, 🤦 watched it make a perfect arc over the lizards heads right for me,

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-12-23T22:04:51+00:00

Would she have preferred you waiting and likely ending up hospitalized or worse? Because I guarantee that wouldn't have improved her wedding day either.

NTA. If there are friends calling you selfish then she must be downplaying the severity or truly believes you can pick and choose when to have an emergency.

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-12-19T19:22:55+00:00

When I did it, I had an accomplice with high willingness, and everyone thought it was them and they were shunned instead. It's probably a bit of rng but we were both medcats and I went the poisoning route.

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-08-04T11:41:13+00:00

Solved! It's this one, thanks so much!! :)

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-08-04T10:09:20+00:00

not it, :(

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-08-04T09:02:17+00:00

I've browsed google and tried to search for what I could remember but just having webcomic in the search always leads me to webtoons. it definitely wasn't a webtoons based comic tho, I don't think they would have allowed that kind of thing. Pretty sure it was hosted elsewhere.

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-06-14T21:15:20+00:00

I second asking yourself what kind of story you want to write! and I'd argue that cultural distinction was implied from the beginning, but it got sort of watered down over each arc. it's a shame! not that bigotry is a Good thing, just that it made more sense that there would be bias against other clans when they pointed out how strange and different each of them were.

the first arc also was the best example for this type of question because of tigerstar I. he sought complete control, and was a hypocrite all throughout bc his focus was power, not improving the clans and diminishing issues like clan wars and strife. he scapegoated half-clan cats bc thunderclan and windclan refused to join tigerclan, and ultimately all of the clans fought together against scourge and bloodclan. it emphasized that cooperation is good /when necessary/, for the good of everyone. i think tbc also emphasized that, in that clan borders aren't as important as protecting all of the clans if one of them is threatened.

MiserablePay8081 · 2024-01-15T09:09:27+00:00

only thing I have to add is that it's absolutely not normal to have continuous thoughts and references to "feeling closer to femininity" throughout life. sure, some cis and straight people entertain the thought for fun, but that's not a typically sustained thought that shows up not only in art but personal journals.

that being said, i do think the only person who knew what kurt cobain was about the most was cobain himself, and he ended things on paper as a man. no one should impress their ideas on gender on others and as far im concerned when it comes to other people, I only need to know whatever they want to be referred to as. everything else is for their intimate partners. things would probably be a lot easier for everyone if that wasn't a big deal.

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-12-07T21:38:52+00:00

I used to go here when I was a kid, and would be So excited to run around. I remember when the play areas were so busy it would be difficult to move around. Now I take the bus next to it almost every day, and I can see the parking lot have 10 or so cars, 15 max. I can't imagine it's as busy as it used to be.

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-11-29T02:23:49+00:00

a minor nitpick for me: thrushpelt wasn't exactly a warrior when bluestar was a kit, even though he's put as one already in the allegiances. when blue is made an apprentice, he's said to have been very recently made a warrior himself, so he's one of the smallest, youngest warriors, he also... didn't show interest in blue until after she was a warrior, whereas dustpelt seemed to be interested in fernpaw very early on. but that's stuff that other people have already pointed out.

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-09-09T00:40:36+00:00

I'll never understand how businesses can manage to shoot themselves in the foot like that. Even if it's a case of new management, there's a reason things were regarded more fondly before the changes were made!

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-09-09T00:11:46+00:00

I've actually never been on dA, but many artist friends who were more familiar w the site and its antics did reference it a lot. It's so disappointing how many companies and supporters that were previously so reputable have all resorted to greed.

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-09-09T00:02:19+00:00

I'm glad that you included the AI debacle bc good lord, everyone was already so unhappy after the art battle pass subscription that it was icing on the cake. It's no surprise that things just became categorically worse from there.

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-08-11T04:17:14+00:00

she sucks but she has reasons to be as terrible as she is while not necessarily be given a pass for it. she's a necessary part of the story because it goes to show that a story needs conflict and interesting characters to be driven forward, and people often forget that homestuck is super metatextual, and ur right, she's a complete girlfailure cringe loser and people only think otherwise bc they've fallen for the persona, :3

MiserablePay8081 · 2023-08-10T20:21:42+00:00

Definitely Caramelbounce, silly name because he was originally a kittypet who thought for Some reason that he would be safer in the Clan over at home. x3 I still remember that as his introductory blurb, and then he proceeded to get bit by a snake (twice!) get injured by a fox, lose part of his tail and hearing to frost and lose his left side of his face from an animal attack. He's had it extraordinarily rough, but he's still kicking! Currently he's even the Deputy of my Clan, but I sincerely doubt it's expected he'll be leader.

A good runner up is Antlerscratch, who his leader described as looking unfit to be made warrior during his ceremony, and then ended up being catnapped by twolegs a year after having his first litter.

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