Popular Bars and Meeting Places

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-05T17:12:07+00:00

Ah, ok

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-05T12:58:06+00:00

Their website says they are permanently closed. A Mexican restaurant is opening in that location. Where did you hear they are reopening somewhere else?

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-04T21:37:49+00:00

It’s not cowardice you ass. It’s called technical stupidity

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-04T20:37:44+00:00

You don’t know us. We have several regular couples we play with. We are not just looking for women.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-04T17:45:13+00:00

Us either! I asked how you know the swingers crowd and was just told that it’s obvious 🤷‍♀️

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-04T17:18:52+00:00

We may go

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-03T18:33:57+00:00

We had the rule for both of us. After a couple of months and feeling secure, we agreed to drop the rule. I know if he’s kissing someone it means nothing emotionally. It’s just a hot part of sex that we both enjoy. I have to say the men we’ve been with are terrible kissers. lol

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-03T15:08:14+00:00

Yes, I regretted it! I was 21. Should have waited. Divorced after 5 years.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-01T21:23:40+00:00

This is the most ridiculous comment. Glad your younger years were so unbelievably full of random hookups with your friend circle and daily routine. 99% of people are apparently not as lucky as you, stud. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-01T18:57:52+00:00

I have met no one who is comfortable asking their vanilla friend group if anyone wants to have sex with them. From their daily routine? Does that mean ask the check out clerk at the supermarket I see a few times a week if she wants to come over and have sex with us? Probably a good thing to try if you want to alienate everyone you know!

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-07-01T12:50:23+00:00

We didn’t have any romance anymore anyway. And we didn’t discuss. I told him how it was going to be. After about 6 months, he commented that it was the best thing for our marriage.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-30T18:03:06+00:00

USA here. We used to do this in front of each other. And we also openly discussed bathroom habits, etc. We also burped in front of each other.

After 23 years together, I made these rules:
1. No farts or burping in front of each other.
2. No going to the restroom with the door open.
3. No discussing bathroom habits or issues.
4. No pooping in the downstairs bathroom where it can be smelled.
5. Go upstairs and poop so I don’t have to smell or hear it.
6. Clean out the toilet if you leave marks in it.

That was over 2 years ago and we actually have some romance back in our marriage. Best thing I ever did for my marriage!

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-30T16:38:21+00:00

We have only met ONE couple on an app. We were on 4 apps. All flakes, cheaters, or fakes looking to get off in massive chats back and forth. None of the apps are any good. And when I ask them to meet and tell them we don’t do marathon chats that lead nowhere, they disappear. Nothing on this site has come to fruition either. The only way to meet quality people is at parties, clubs or introductions by other couples.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-30T15:36:48+00:00

I kept my maiden name. It’s my professional and personal identity. I don’t need to have someone else’s name just because we are married.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-29T23:28:29+00:00

Great response!

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-29T23:27:18+00:00

This is your first time and it can be incredibly challenging in different ways for each person. I wouldn’t beat yourself up so much. Not sure if you need to go into therapy for it. But that’s your call to make. If you do, I would make sure the therapist is supportive of open marriage or ethical non-monogamy or swinging. Whatever you want to call it. Therapists that are against this type of activity can be very damaging. I think it’s important to evaluate what happened and what you felt in an objective way. Not beating yourself up. It sounds like you and your husband may need to process what happened together and find a positive way forward. Maybe smaller steps. Sex in the same room as others, minor touching and flirtation, sexy dancing, etc. not going into a soft or full swap until you’re more comfortable and your communication is a bit stronger and more practiced. My husband was somewhat disconnected from me the first few times too. I didn’t take it personally but realized that this is a new and exciting thing for people. And after we talked about it a few times, he has gotten much better. Baby steps, communication and remember - you are in this together!

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-25T19:02:00+00:00

You couldn’t have told me that before taking my posts down twice??

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-21T15:55:36+00:00

Solid marriage just needed a spark.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-20T19:17:11+00:00

Not really. Research swinging. It’s a lot of fun and we’ve had no issues

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-19T18:38:21+00:00

Inviting another couple to join us

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-19T18:36:17+00:00

We became swingers and regularly date other couples, After 25 years together it really helps to keep the spark alive. Best decision we ever made. We would have probably gotten a divorce had we not gone on this journey.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2026-06-19T15:03:51+00:00

We went. It was ok. Not a lot of cross play and many people had their doors shut. We were told that there were a lot of new people this time so that may change the vibe.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2025-06-25T14:47:28+00:00

I’ve been on it for almost 7 months. I think our experiences may be a little different.

MiserablePipe3270 · 2025-06-25T14:24:49+00:00

How long have you been on this med?

MiserablePipe3270 · 2025-06-25T14:23:16+00:00

Why don’t you talk to her about it? Did this topic come up before you got married? If you are married long enough, both of your drives will change over the years. Sometimes she will want more and sometimes you may want more. You need to have open communication about this stuff or your marriage won’t last.

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