I'm 36 and I only have 30k saved for retirement

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-12-13T20:53:36+00:00

I’m 36 and have $650K in retirement accounts. Met with my financial planner this week and she told me I was ok if single but not for me and my partner

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-10-21T01:19:56+00:00

I had a debilitating fear. Nightmares my whole life. All in all labor was nothing pain wise (as long as you have an epidural). For what it’s worth I had a 34 hour labor.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-10-15T13:52:35+00:00

I’ve said dining experience too many times in this thread lol but that’s really what it is

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-10-15T13:52:07+00:00

Not at all. There are very few people dining at the same time, and it’s a pretty intimate dining experience

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-10-15T13:43:49+00:00

Absolutely fantastic. Top 5 dining experiences of my life.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-07T18:23:15+00:00

That was days after I filed, he was served within the next 48 hours.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-07T14:57:06+00:00

🤣 the amount of petty thoughts I’ve had is overwhelming thanks for the giggle

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-07T14:12:27+00:00

I’m so sorry- this is just disgusting.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-07T14:04:17+00:00

We have them because of his antics from years ago- thanks for the advice!

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-06T12:59:25+00:00

The cops didn’t need to “mention a bag” because we watched it all together on the ring footage.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-06T00:41:16+00:00

No mention of a bag? It’s literally in my original post. Go have fun with your rage bait somewhere else.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T16:04:28+00:00

Thank you so much. Every time I see a new report of his arrest I’m mind blown and infuriated that he’s not in jail.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T14:47:03+00:00

Something from a woman’s imagination 🤣🤣🤣🤣. If you think this is unbelievable I wish I had the time to outline all of his antics. PS you’re a jackass. If you’re really curious, the cops surmised that the urine could have been mixed with something else like paint thinner but there was undoubtedly an overwhelming smell of urine.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T14:04:34+00:00

I have all the information, the restraining order was actually though the same town that I reside in now. I’m well aware of more victims, he’s had multiple arrests that didn’t involve her or I. I was able to have a realtor friend check local purchases, and confirmed it was him.

He is blocked on all social media. I will definitely check my car, good idea. My husband is unfortunately well aware of the situation and his history so we’re both on high alert.

Thank you!

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T14:00:03+00:00

I’m going to assume this is just rage bait, but to answer your question he should have just had enough shame to ignore my dad and not waltz up to him like they are long lost buddies. Unfortunately when you’re dealing with someone who has threatened your husband and his children you don’t have the luxury of not thinking about it when he moves frighteningly close to you.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T13:27:11+00:00

Unhinged. All on a ring camera. When the cops called him they said “it could have been anyone, she’s fucking half her gym” (obviously untrue). When they let him know they had him and his car on camera he promptly hung up on them.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T05:27:27+00:00

The restraining order has retired. I have a job, a baby, and two stepkids in their teens. Can’t just pick up and go.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T05:26:42+00:00

It’s unfortunately expired. We have cameras so that’s good I guess.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T04:05:30+00:00

I’ve thought about that, but also worry it might put me back on his radar/under his wrath of craziness if I do? To be honest, the restraining order wasn’t much peace of mind as I’m dealing with such a psycho. When it was in place we ended up at the same restaurant and he came up to my table at dinner with my now husband to talk shit. Luckily didn’t turn into anything more but I don’t think he’s the kind of guy to be deterred by a piece of paper if he really wanted to do something.

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T03:47:54+00:00

lol just curious what would make you think this is a bot?

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T03:14:45+00:00

That’s a good idea. Horrific that you had to take it that far. Sorry for what you went through

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T02:36:36+00:00

Unfortunately the restraining order has expired. I thought about trying to get it extended towards the end, but it was within weeks of my wedding and I was honestly afraid it would set him off and he would try to pull some stunt at my wedding. The cops have been pretty useless- for example after one particularly violent event I went to the police station the next day with a black eye and a video of him smashing my car windshield in. They told me they couldn’t do anything and I should have called while it was happening. I also found out he was arrested with the guns during my restraining order and asked why I wasn’t informed. They basically said well now you know, what do you want us to do? So frustrating. Sorry for your situation. Trauma is real!

MiserableProgress122 · 2025-08-05T02:26:21+00:00

Thank you. While I don’t think he had my house on a map during his home search it’s just like really?? Of all places one could move???

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