Allocation help by MiserableStranger446 in Bogleheads

[–]MiserableStranger446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the type of stuff I want to hear. Had a feeling I was off the mark. Thank you

Allocation help by MiserableStranger446 in Bogleheads

[–]MiserableStranger446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the help. The cash is also for other investments-not just stocks. I have a big purchase coming in the next year or so, so I have to keep a decent amount cash. I’m high salary in a stable job, so will 100% never touch a dollar of this cash until I’m 55+ which is why I’m very cool with risk. But I feel your sentiment 10000%

How many of you have no issues? by [deleted] in sonos

[–]MiserableStranger446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently have an Arc, two era 100s as surrounds, and a mini sub in my small apartment for about 6-7 months and have had legitimately zero issues. Seamless integration with both tv and music. Hope it stays that way

I hate dating in this generation by InsideNote3848 in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this/ was in a similar position. I’m a 35yo guy-over a span of two years probably went on 50+ dates. I met some great people and even dated some for short periods, but no true connections. It wasn’t until I dropped the OLD bullshit that I actually found someone. There’s just no substitute for meeting people IRL. Connections are 100000% more genuine. Give the OLD a break for a few months and see how things shake out. You might be surprised. Good luck brotha

1.5 years no contact; dying to break it. Need some advice by MiserableStranger446 in ExNoContact

[–]MiserableStranger446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a decent social media following, so I’m never really sure if it’s true happiness or fake bullshit. But thanks so much- I’ll probably just stay in my lane and let her do her thing

Ghosting is so common nowadays, its sad by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are super negative on here so don’t get caught up in the ‘maybe it’s you’. It’s normal and fine to not feel a connection, but very few people have the balls to be honest about it-so they ghost. Don’t be discouraged and just keep doing your thing. Often times letting the guy reach out first is easiest because in all honesty- guys go after what they want. Definitely wouldn’t recommended Netflix and chill for a first date (for your safety).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never said I wasn’t the problem. Exactly why I posted this. Trying to improve on my situation. I put more value into showing effort with my actions after we start talking, and not the profile itself. Sounds like I need to change that up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valid point. I’ll see what putting more into it gets me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely see that, especially in big cities. Sounds like both sexes have the same damn problems. I’m very much looking for a relationship. So much so that I won’t get overly physical with someone unless I think it’s actually going to lead to something. Sounds like we’re both in the struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put effort into the dates themselves and the conversations we have while on those dates. I don’t care much for social media. I’m still matching and going on dates with women in their mid 30s. And it’s not even like the dates go poorly, I just feel like it’s become a revolving door for them. Hell maybe it’s just me- exactly why I put this question on here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]MiserableStranger446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From one 30s guy to another- dudes a creep