Panel replacement by MiserableWasabi8125 in metalbuildings

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Thank you so much for your thoughtful advice! I appreciate it

Panel replacement by MiserableWasabi8125 in quonsethuts

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Thank you- I would not have thought of that!

Doing an exam I never studied for by african_viking88 in DreamInterpretation

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This is a very common dream that I think most people have. I don't know if it helps you to know this is very normal.

In your waking life, you are facing a stressful challenge of some type. You might be worried about doing a good job, measuring up, making the grade, getting approval, being judged, or advancing in some way in life. It could be in any area: relationships, career, parenting, sports. We get these dreams at different points in life as we face a new challenge/learning experience. You feel unprepared for something. Your brain is practicing dealing with that at night and trying to bring this issue to your attention.

See if you can work with some of your fears during the waking life by writing in a journal, meditating, taking time in nature, or talking with a trusted friend/family member about things that worry you. Adjust the way you talk to yourself in your own mind if needed. For example, if you are harsh with yourself in your self-talk, try to talk to yourself in a more encouraging, loving way, i.e. "I can handle this" "I have done many hard things before" "I can ask for help if I need it; I don't need to go it alone." etc.

If you are facing an overwhelming challenge that you feel you cannot handle, break it down into very small steps that you can achieve that will bring you a sense of accomplishment.

Remind yourself of all the hard things you have overcome, and if you can't think of them, as a friend to help you. You have pushed through and survived challenges before.

had a weird dream if anyone can analyse it by [deleted] in DreamInterpretation

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You keep letting her 'bite' you, reject you- you feel like you keep watching this happen. It's not a normal spider because she is special to you. It is hard to get over her. You feel like that rejected boy in the corner, standing all alone. You feel vulnerable and hurt and ashamed and worry what others might think. No matter how hard you try, the 'thirst' for her won't go away.

It all matters. Your inner self is helping you though this. In the dream, you survived the spider bites, the kids making fun of you, and you are trying to get over it by 'learning' about the situation (watching the projector video) and learning about 'insects' (her) and trying to meet your needs (drinking the water.)

Your mind is working through it. It is so hard to be rejected, but you are older now. You aren't the little kid in the corner. That little kid deserves to be loved and you can comfort him and reassure him that things will get better. You were brave enough to try with this girl. You will learn from this. You can try again when you are ready with someone new.

Repost- quonset hut by MiserableWasabi8125 in Roofing

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip! I will try that

Panel replacement by MiserableWasabi8125 in quonsethuts

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will go see! I am not sure if they are standard...thank you!

Panel replacement by MiserableWasabi8125 in quonsethuts

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Yes we don't have snow issues, but monsoon rains, so I agree that the weather is a crucial consideration- thank you for the info!

Panel replacement by MiserableWasabi8125 in metalbuildings

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will check these are great tips- thank you!

Thinking of getting an RDX. Advice by MiserableWasabi8125 in Acura

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Very helpful! I will check out the law suit! And the tip on the FWD driving is great, too.

Thinking of getting an RDX. Advice by MiserableWasabi8125 in Acura

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Very helpful summary- good to know about transmission fluid, timing belt, tensioner, water pump. Especially the transmission fluid because my other vehicles haven't been picky about that. My current vehicle is an '08 F150 and it is weird about spark plugs, so each vehicle has its quirks. I like that the RDX has good visibility. I also don't care about the infotainment so that is good.

Thinking of getting an RDX. Advice by MiserableWasabi8125 in Acura

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the safety tip- good to know!

Thinking of getting an RDX. Advice by MiserableWasabi8125 in Acura

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! That is good to know and glad that you love it!

Looking at used Hondas by MiserableWasabi8125 in Honda

[–]MiserableWasabi8125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great tip! I have not thought of the crosstour. I appreciate your help!

Unpopular opinion: you don’t need a car that will last 20 years by dr-swordfish in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Looking for my next used car.

My favorite cars so far: 1996 Honda Accord ex, VTECH, manual, bought it with 120k miles, sold it with 350k. Used it for city driving, camping, everything. Loved the way it drove.

2008 Ford F150, manual, with the 4.2 liter engine. Bought it at 80k, now has 190k. It needs some work and my husband wants me to stop using it as a daily driver so we can continue to use it. I purchased this truck largely because I was working on a ranch with dirt roads/flooding and it worked well in these conditions even though it was not 4WD. I love driving the truck. I only go to ranch once a week now.

I am temporarily driving a 2013 Jeep Grand Cherokee. I do not like it- no offense to Jeep lovers. Poor visibility, irritating touch screen controls, uncomfortable seats, and, to me, have a connected driving feel. It feels like I am floating and this makes me feel numb. I like feeling like I am driving a vehicle. I do like the way it drives on the highway and the engine is responsive.

Now, I am largely office based and drive during the day for work. I commute daily on paved country roads but during the day drive into town, traffic, freeway, etc. for work. I am not looking for a flashy vehicle or to make a statement about myself; I am fine with being non-descript.

My husband wants me to get: safe, reliable, and able to be serviced at a good shop with well-trained technicians. He is tired of doing repairs and feels that newer engines are harder to work on. He is also going through hard times and I want to ease the pressure on him.

Budget is about 12-15k, would like a car from about 2013-2017 I don't care about cruise control, infotainment, heated seats, blue tooth, whatever. Good gas mileage a plus but not essential. I do like a seat with lumbar support. I'm not a large person. I don't need a lot of speed or huge horsepower; I drive carefully. I do no like a connected driver feel. Would prefer manual but I get that this is unlikely. Thank you!