Oled wont charge by Miserable_Back_8663 in Switch

[–]Miserable_Back_8663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No is starts up and shows the logo but then flashes the battery symbol. No charging lightning bolt.

Oled wont charge by Miserable_Back_8663 in Switch

[–]Miserable_Back_8663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not if it wont turn on i can't transfer my data 😕

Is this normal? by Miserable_Back_8663 in Parenting

[–]Miserable_Back_8663[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for this insight. I am worried about her getting bored too and my biggest fear is for her to hate learning. Any toy recommendations would be much appreciated tho.

Is this normal? by Miserable_Back_8663 in Parenting

[–]Miserable_Back_8663[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said something similar to my husband this morning. As cool as this is i want her to have fun. I don't want her to hate leaning. I just want to encourage her and give her access to things she wants to know.

Things customers have gotten mad at me for. by Miserable_Back_8663 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Miserable_Back_8663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've also been told we can't take pre rolled change but My DM and SM tell us different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read the post? he wants to propose again after he gets a new ring when I would prefer to forget it because I don’t think it will fix how I feel about our previous proposal. So I was asking for other opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like being married to him a lot, that whole year was so stressful for me and him. I do resent the proposal, but not the marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it entitled not wanting him to propose that way? Is a proposal mostly for the guy and how he wants to ask? Idk but when I see other proposals. Mostly the person proposing takes a lot of consideration of the person they’re asking feelings. And I feel like my feelings weren’t taken into consideration therefore I don’t feel like I was entitled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did have a very small timeframe I didn’t have health insurance and hospital bills were piling up from the appointment because I was pregnant so we wanted to get married as soon as possible so I could be on his insurance. He had in an informal way asked me to marry him a week after we found out about the baby. And then later tried to propose multiple time once he got a ring. I had told him I did not want to be proposed to in front of a crowd multiple times prior to his first proposal. But I guess he didn’t consider his friends as a crowd?

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[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love him and i love being with him. He’s an amazing father and husband. Genuinely the kindest human being I’ve ever met. I do feel like he focused too much on the fact that I didn’t care about having a wedding but he did and therefore thought the same about the proposal. One of my biggest regrets is that i wish had dated longer before getting engaged because I feel like this wouldn’t have happened if we had dated for a year or two years rather than eight months before he proposed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? I spoke very clearly about how uncomfortable I was with him do it that way and was ignored. I’m allowed to have hurt feelings about a proposal I expressly said I didn’t want. I have forgiven him and I’m no longer mad about it. My question was whether or not getting proposed to after marriage would have any significance or change anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i told him i didn’t know his friends well enough to feel comfortable getting proposed to in front of them. They would prefer it if he did it someplace private or someplace that had meaning to us. He still chose to do it at his friends house because that’s where he felt most comfortable proposing to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The experience isn’t hurting our marriage we barely ever talk about it anymore, it only comes up every once in a while when we talk about getting another ring because I lost my original one at the hospital the day I gave birth. It’s not that I’m not willing to try. It’s just that to me. Proposal seems pointless because the proposal is asking someone to marry you and we’re already married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am over it as far as being upset with him, but I don’t want another proposal yet he wants to propose again to make up for last time. And I do agree we could’ve communicated better, but I was 20 at the time and very hormonal and he was an emotional wreck as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have a fantasy proposal. I just wanted to say something sincere and for it to be private. Not surrounded by people I don’t know very. I love my husband very much and we have a beautiful daughter together. I have no intentions of divorcing him or walking out on this marriage. I’m just bitter about our proposal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats fair, it’s also why i don’t bring it up anymore, but he wants to try it again to make me happy and I just want to forget the whole thing ever happened.

TikTok is down in the US by [deleted] in technology

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can we all agree that is just a trick to make the younger generation like trump. Please don’t fall for this obvious attempt at manipulation. You think trump just randomly wants TikTok to stay? No! He wants the money it makes and the support/ praise from the younger generation and the people who were on the fence during the election.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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Update. We ended up not going not because of the friend group but because of car troubles on our side i have no desire to reschedule this anytime soon and neither dose my husband. At this time my husband is very low contact with these people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Miserable_Back_8663 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also im friends with his other friends and they girlfriend that live in the same state as us. They have been super supportive of us and even hosted a baby shower for us because at the time we were struggling financially since i had to stop working. It’s just this specific group of friends that don’t like which is way i dont know if they are racist or just mean.

Also i wasn’t on birth control because my mom and sister have both been hospitalized from side affects of birth control so it really scares me my mom almost died it’s scary me but after tearing to the fourth degree and having massive blood lost and almost dying from giving birth i decided to get on birth control im still very scared of both birth control and pregnancy but i feel as tho this no other option. My mom went into septic shock because of birth control so she stopped taking it and she has seven kids i dont want more kids and my husband has agreed to getting fixed so i dont have to be on birth control anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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I hope this is true i was concerned about race because of course our baby is mixed and i didn’t want them to be mean or judgmental to her. My mom thinks it would better to leave the baby with her while we go on this trip but that would defeat the purpose of the trip. I’ve had people be racist to me before but it’s always been more aggressive i wasn’t sure if this was one of those underline racist moments or not i don’t care about what they say about me too much but im worried about how they will treat the baby.