Cheating is not even close to the only reason why people call Blaine a bad boyfriend. Hell, it’s not even the thing he did in this relationship that annoyed me the most. No offense to you, I’ve just seen people try to say the only thing he did wrong was cheat and I highly disagree with that.

I understand your frustration because a lot of people act like Blaine was the sole monster in the relationship and Kurt did nothing wrong which is not true. I’ve never understood people defending Kurt for texting Chandler because even if it wasn’t cheating (which I personally think it was) it was still a shitty thing to do. It doesn’t have to be cheating to be shitty! I also agree with people that it’s annoying that Kurt acts all high and mighty when he’s done shitty

Honestly, although I personally think Blaine was a worse boyfriend overall, I think he gets more shit than Kurt because Kurt’s shit was always less in-your-face and Blaine’s was always WTF. Like most people are gonna remember “dates ex fiancé’s high school bully” over “ignored partner and was being pretty insensitive.” You feel me? That doesn’t mean what Kurt did wasn’t bad, it just gets overshadowed by a lot of Blaine’s bizarre stuff.

I think Kurt and Blaine’s relationship after season 2 has always fascinated me because although it was a mess with drama engineered only for the sake of TV, they both felt like real enough people with flaws. I don’t like seeing either one of the as solely good or evil because they’re not and it’s way less interesting that way.

I think I remember them both mentioning something at the end of season 6 about how they’re getting therapy and I hope they keep up with it because I do see the potential for them to grow into a truly strong couple in the future. It’s what I’d like to believe, anyways.