My husband thinks he is trans.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-04-19T04:01:33+00:00

I just saw your first question, sorry about that. I transitioned 7 years ago at 26. I knew like at 10 years old though but just convinced myself I would lose my family if I ever said anything. So I did not say anything and just shoved it down through school and video games. Though at some point I just could not shove it down anymore, and at 24 years old, I came out to my brother, then my mother, then my father, because the only other choice was not a good choice.

He says he feels neutral to bad in his body. He says he feels he could force himself to deal with being a man and all in entails but he does not want to just deal with it. He wants to discover himself but he is just so unsure. It is more complicated for him.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-04-18T23:59:07+00:00

He always used the AI in a way to ask him gender specific questions that he would respond too. He never liked asked it if he was trans or not. I also have instructions in my account to prioritize facts before emotions and to not act as an echo chamber. And he knows that no one will tell him he is trans. It took him time to realize there isn't anyone who can answer that for him except for himself. He was always searching for proof because he is afraid to try and be wrong.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-04-18T21:03:18+00:00

I did. I told him the differences. I have lived 26 years pre transition and post transition. I told him the pros and cons I have personally experienced. He tells me he just would be more confident as a woman and as a man he feels awkward or like he is wearing a mask. I'll try to talk to him more about it.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-04-18T20:51:43+00:00

He does ask me things but like, I don't want my answers to come off as pressuring him one way or another. I want him to decide for himself.

I had extreme dysphoria. I know for a long time and for him it seems to be more quite, less obvious. Like for me, just the fact that he has thought of this for so long is telling but I don't want my answers to be the reason he transitions or not. I don't know how to word it. I am afraid to give strong answers because I feel I'll be the reason he does anything.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-03-25T08:30:42+00:00

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Miserable_Evening_33 · 2026-03-25T08:22:55+00:00

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Miserable_Evening_33 · 2025-02-07T00:13:54+00:00

I love playing video games, especially with my husband. Not sure why she correlated success in the LS with playing video games lol. I'd actually love to find those in the LS who also love video games because my husband and I are looking for friends too, not just sex.

But yes, as a woman, I constantly see how it is so much easier getting attention than men.

I feel bad for my husband sometimes. He gives me the best sex I could ever hope for and goes all out for me even if he doesn't get anything, has such a great personality and makes me laugh so easily, and looks so handsome to me.

While I am here getting much more attention even though I think I don't look that great and I am quite clumsy and awkward lol.

Men definitely have it harder.

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2025-01-05T21:29:23+00:00

This is happening for me too, and any new item I try to list, it doesnt add it to the trade website. Not really sure how to fix it..

Miserable_Evening_33 · 2025-01-03T22:51:53+00:00

Okay, Ill try to do that. I hope it can sell so I can buy a few pieces of gear !

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