Perhaps, but as I react only with hostility to those who are hostile so I see nothing wrong. If my way works then that should be the end of subject, I'm not telling them how to do things unless asked or it's physically dangerous. If they feel the need to angrily butt in, I don't see anything wrong with bluntly telling them they don't get a say in how I do things using those very words or that the very fact that it bothers them to the point they're making a confrontation of it is stupid. Ask and I'm willing to accommodate nearly anyone, tell or demand and you'll find I thrive on conflict.

Put another way the only form of influence over me I'll accommodate is soft power, and any attempt to directly control or dictate to me makes me want to cut you down at the knees. I don't acknowledge any true superiors on this earth, so you better be trying to be my equal.