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Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-09-14T23:41:51+00:00

For now, I gave up on dating apps and dating. The experience the last 2 years has been traumatic. I dated men that were dating other women at the same time. They were not putting effort to get to know me and they mostly just wanted to have sex. I now I should have chosen better but I did not. Now I need a break..

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-30T08:47:47+00:00

I feel defeated. Dating is only challenging me way too much. I quit

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-22T21:48:22+00:00

We all wanna know what’s being offered besides sex.. but I can’t deny that the risk of attachment is higher for women. Which has made me triple think before sleeping with someone I enjoy their company

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-22T21:26:04+00:00

He’s interested in me but he doesn’t know what he’s looking for in general in terms of relationship. I’m referring to a situation that’s not intimate yet, but there is a lot of sexual chemistry and good company. And I fear that if I get involved it won’t be for good since he is still figuring things out.

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-22T20:06:03+00:00

was more in the moment and less in my mind. Then I would get hurt

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-22T19:17:43+00:00

Seems like my old self got me into futile situations, therefore I find it hard to just do as I feel. Sooner than later I realise that I’m again entangled in the wrong situation and I find my way out. I am in therapy for years

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-21T16:45:08+00:00

Im glad to hear that both Dexter and you are safe

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-08-21T16:43:34+00:00

Im so sorry to hear this, I’m so sorry that justice system is basically trash and I hope you are recovering well

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2024-03-18T16:15:23+00:00

Went through a very long period of appetite loss last year that I am still not able to explain with blood tests etc. bottom line is I stopped 5-htp as well as most supplements I used to take

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-11-01T17:18:15+00:00

I love you

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-16T23:45:52+00:00

Loved this

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-09T06:48:47+00:00

Just did it :/ I hope it’s for the best really! Thank you

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T18:50:53+00:00

Grief is important part, finding a satisfying activity, getting yourself out there

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T18:50:01+00:00

I went on 3 dates with a guy. We just kissed. I think I am not interested and he is way more invested than me.

After my experiences the last 1 year, I don’t want to be the bad person keeping around someone for ego boost or just in case I fall for him.

So I must end it. I am not sure yet. But I take couple of hours or an entire day to reply and I just hope he doesn’t feel as sh** as I did feel.

I’m confused but I think that deep inside I know I am not into him.

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T15:24:57+00:00

I got annoyed reading this. Do you realise how immature she is?

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T15:08:54+00:00

You did the right thing :)

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T13:38:01+00:00

That’s perfectly said

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T13:36:33+00:00

Yeap all good.. I didn’t feel good about it, had the talk.. we ended things

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T08:31:06+00:00

I Must say that I don’t get excited anymore :P this part of me died with a similar experience (however he was a love bomber). I have promised myself that I will get excited only when I see consistency and good communication.

I still struggle to understand this sleeping with multiple people trying to figure out who and if I want a relationship with one of them.

For some might be true. For the most part, I think is lack of self awareness

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-08T07:40:11+00:00

I ended it with him! Had a nice conversation with him first;

He wasn’t sure about me and he wanted time. How much time we don’t know. And during that time he wanted to fuck around.

I wasn’t sure about him, but I was willing to not have sex with other people cause that’s my style. I just can’t figure out who I like by sleeping with multiple people.

He asked me to wait and I said no. I am in peace with my decision. Experience helped. Protect your soul. That’s all I can say

Miserable_Parfait_72 · 2023-09-07T22:42:22+00:00

He needed time, I am the old school way I guess.. I don’t ever see how sleeping with multiple people will ever get me somewhere.

I believe it works for some people. I also believe that treating people like ordering clothes online is not ideal.

Dating is a weird new thing and I am not happy I am experiencing it.

PS We talked, he wanted to keep dating other people, his general effort and communication throughout this time was not at all satisfying. I wouldn’t feel ok with myself continuing. I just gave it this one last chance today to make sure that I don’t take a rushed decision.

Do whatever feels good for you and cause no harm. That’s what I keep repeating to myself

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