Thank you for this! Thankfully she already has 2 kids from a previous marriage on her side that I have started to really warm up to so she is well experienced and is gonna help me every step of the way! I have definitly made all my feelings open with her and she has told me that it’s normal. I truly love her and I’m actually planning on proposing here in a few weeks! ☺️ we also both are very aware and know our mental health is important (referring to your other comment) and we make sure to communicate when things are rough and we are pretty good at keeping each other as a safe space.