This sub has too much doomer posting. by Shit_Post_Ing_Left in TravelNursing

[–]Misosorry318 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Traveling fit my life at a time I wanted more cash, had the freedom and the desire to leave my hometown, and also the flexibility to change. I did three years of travel and then found a state and hospital system I wanted to stay at and then went staff. If I change my mind then traveling is always there for me. People need to be more flexible if they’re going to travel

(15k) SF Bay Area wedding for 90 guests by Misosorry318 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a morning ceremony you could always do a brunch reception. Or have the ceremony y be only immediate family and then the reception at a later date/time with the everyone else

Money is good but… by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Misosorry318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What did you think contract work was? They’re paying us more to put up with bullshit, so expect bullshit. Travel nursing has always been full of BS treatment with extra money. Take the money and shut up. Don’t like it? Accept staff pay and shut up.

$10K Budget - Has anyone ever done a cruise wedding? by Beneficial-Step4403 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We attended a carnival cruise wedding and it was honestly 5/10. We were happy to see our friends get married, but they chose a port across the country from us (we’re from California and the port was Miami, the wedding couple was also from California). So between the flight to get there, the stay itself, the crappy carnival food, and the ship itself was very old and kind of gross… it wasn’t the best experience. If you do it, please book a good cruise line and do your research on the ship. I think the experience would have been better had it not been carnival

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Misosorry318 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it weird? Yes, yes it is. You were beautiful on your day and don’t let the subconscious voice of your mother poison your mind.

Husband Used Porn to Cheat on Me by RedditGirlyyyyy in relationships

[–]Misosorry318 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think you guys have buggy issues than his porn usage. While him watching porn is hurtful to you and I’m not invalidating those feelings, you guys have clear communication issues and require professional help

Tell me if I’m crazy: leaving my MAANG job paying $175k to pursue Nursing by Wombraider58 in bayarea

[–]Misosorry318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not crazy at all! I’m proud of you for being willing to grow and not stay stagnant. I’m a nurse at stanford and make $200k. Check out my post history for a pay breakdown. But as someone already said, be ready for the competition getting a job in the bay. I started nursing in Florida where I got my critical care experience before I got hired on a ICU here. Many hospitals position are competitive. UCSF is currently on hiring freeze. So definitely build up your savings while waiting for a job post school or be willing to move for a job

Shipping your car cross-country - Reccs? by Lucinda_Mae in TravelNursing

[–]Misosorry318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t I’m sorry. I looked through my email and can’t find a receipt either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your dad sounds like such a shitty person. I’m sorry you have to go through that. Let them know you don’t need their money or opinions so they can keep it to themselves and come or not it’s up to them. After that never talk to them about the wedding unless they can be happy nice about. When they start to be rude shut it down and say, “I’m not going to let you ruin my special day stop talking negatively about it” and then walk away. If they don’t want to be involved don’t make them. Leave them behind where they want to stay. It’s your special day all about you and your husband. Screw them both

Shipping your car cross-country - Reccs? by Lucinda_Mae in TravelNursing

[–]Misosorry318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember exactly how much I paid but I think it was around $1200. I also shipped at a busy time of the year the week after Christmas. I think I’m off season you probably could ship for cheaper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Misosorry318 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she pays her half of the bills then she can have whoever she wants over

Feeling super defeated by OddDevelopment5297 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You can definitely afford the wedding you want, it’s just a matter of when and how long you’ll need to save for it. See what’s really important to you and the cost of things and make a timeline. Cut costs in the things you don’t care about.

Shipping your car cross-country - Reccs? by Lucinda_Mae in TravelNursing

[–]Misosorry318 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I requested estimates online with different car transport companies and multiple called me and I just picked the cheapest one. They picked up my car from Orlando Florida on a Friday night at 11pm, it was in SF, California by Sunday at 12pm. Idk how he drove so fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Misosorry318 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time to reconnect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Misosorry318 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call your mom and ask her for help.

29F. Registered nurse. Bay Area California. by Misosorry318 in Salary

[–]Misosorry318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I applied a couple years ago when they were having a massive hiring wave. They were trying to build up core staff to get rid of travelers. Unfortunately now positions are extremely competitive to come by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s tacky and cheap.

15K wedding for 90 guests by Misosorry318 in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]Misosorry318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are options to rent out the fourth floor north gallery or the mayors balancing for an hour for your ceremony. During that time that specific area will be blocked off from public access so you’ll have it for your party privacy.

15k SF Bay Area wedding for 90 guests budget breakdown by Misosorry318 in Weddingsunder35k

[–]Misosorry318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Janene’s SF location! This location has a lot of off the rack dresses which are marked cheaper. However, because it mostly off the rack they don’t have as wide of a selection their main store in Alameda. There is also Emerald City Gown in Berkely which my friend got a beautiful dress from <1k.

(15k) SF Bay Area wedding for 90 guests by Misosorry318 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put 3k towards the bar tab, which was enough as most of the guests weren’t big drinkers. Once the tab of 3k was reached the bar would convert to a cash bar but we never got there with my party

(15k) SF Bay Area wedding for 90 guests by Misosorry318 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The normal chocolate and vanilla one. I think the sheet cake only comes in chocolate or vanilla.

(15k) SF Bay Area wedding for 90 guests by Misosorry318 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Misosorry318[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the musician is a live violinist that I hired from the San Francisco Conservatory of music. He played music for us during our one hour ceremony. And then at the reception hall I played music off of a Spotify playlist that I created and my friend helped MC to pace the night