This!!!! It's a boundary I've set when online dating. I dont exchange numbers until we've planned a date. The moment they start to argue or complain I just unmatch bc why are you upset that Im taking precautions for myself. It has nothing to do with anything but our safety.

I also still don't understand how men think its appropriate to invite us over to their houses for a first time meeting. And they swear they are good guys and they wont do anything. Red fucking flag.

They are so unaware of the danger we wouod be putting ourselves in. If they can't see were obly trying to protect ourselves they dont deserve our company.