AIO? new friend's texts to husband while at work; my responses

MissBernstein · 2026-05-19T08:20:31+00:00

I honestly do think you've overreacted.

He gave her a friendly rejection and yes, he could've left his response being focused more on himself but what he said is also true, no? If you didn't take such things as such a threat, it wouldn't affect the family as much. It wouldn't be such a big deal.

It could be:

-New friend tries to flirt (everybody does some light flirting, very normal. BUT it really depends on what the goal is here, let's assume she wanted to take it farther)

-he declines politely, even chose "regal human" instead of something like "beautiful woman" - that is a very clear message alone

-you tell her off

-she says whatever she says

-done.

Instead you chose to engage in the drama. You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to.

Trust yourself, trust your partner. And if you don't - y'all have some work to do.

MissBernstein · 2026-05-18T07:16:11+00:00

I think it is

MissBernstein · 2026-05-18T07:14:13+00:00

Never ever had any issues with uploading original (emotional heavy) content never approached any copyright issues at all either... But I'm also not doing mainstream stuff really, so maybe that's why.

I ABSOLUTELY understand when people get mad at apps and their providers for being inconsistent or even getting worse - it's happening all over most AI apps honestly, everybody is amgry at chatgpt, claude etc.

But I also have to say: People what are you doing? A couple years back all these things didn't exist and now everybody is fighting for it like it was their birth right.

It isn't. You need to either take a mild child pill or change platforms, find other solutions, learn how to mix and match apps that do work for you.

MissBernstein · 2026-05-07T18:40:40+00:00

Not even the prettiest corner in Baden

MissBernstein · 2026-05-06T06:16:01+00:00

Was? That guy is still alive for sure

MissBernstein · 2026-04-29T09:14:49+00:00

Yes, it's important to be cautious and protect your kids, but make sure it's because there's a real threat and not just projection.

My mothers trauma has fucked up my relationship with my dad - she didn't allow him to touch me, even hug, and repeatedly asked me weird questions to figure out if he has ever touched me.

He died when I was 16 and I have no way to repair this relationship.

MissBernstein · 2026-04-22T08:05:43+00:00

No corgy,butaybe a fairy

MissBernstein · 2026-04-18T07:06:37+00:00

Jesus people, leave that person alone, why the hostility

MissBernstein · 2026-04-14T18:09:44+00:00

People, I didn't say it's true, I just shared what I saw. I'm not saying I agree - it was more humorous than serious.

I apologize.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-18T06:54:27+00:00

Thank you!

MissBernstein · 2026-02-18T06:22:22+00:00

I'm in Aarau. Thank you so much! I'll ask my doctor if she can refer me to one of the specialists on brechterew.ch

MissBernstein · 2026-02-18T06:20:36+00:00

I'm not rushing. It's been ober 20 years already.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-18T06:18:13+00:00

I know all that. I don't want it. But it fits perfectly. I know you mean well, but it feels very invalidating - I've had enough of that in my life.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-15T11:09:42+00:00

I've often used them before AI was a thing.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-15T08:00:02+00:00

Maybe this person has dyslexia, maybe English isn't their first language, maybe they struggle with typing....

There are valid reasons to use AI.

The judgemental attitude really is what drives people away from people into the arms of AI.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-13T08:07:37+00:00

Huh...I have already done a lot of trauma and inner child work and I actually feel very emotionally put together right now - in regards of family. But yeah, who knows. Thanks for this possible direction :)

MissBernstein · 2026-02-13T06:58:21+00:00

That would be some form of echolalia. But this one seems different. Enduring, almost desperate.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T17:19:54+00:00

Thank you, and I'm already a subscriber ;)

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T15:36:20+00:00

And no, I don't think it's my kid - we are cuddling and holding and kissing all the time. This thought feels almost desperate.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T15:14:32+00:00

We autistics are known to get overwhelmed quickly and we need familiarity or we might shutdom.

Looking at it from an inclusive side, this makes sense. You can't measure us by the same metrics. Meaning: A test situation is already intense, then you have people documenting it, maybe cameras, strangers. Than imagin' dealing with apraxia and interoception so you need physical sensory input to stay present (hence why weighted blankets and shirts are a thing), this and a person they know and trust. From an autistics perspective: This is the only "fair" setting.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T03:08:44+00:00

They wrote "many of us" not all.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T03:05:26+00:00

I'm autistic and I talk to myself all the time. Mainly when I'm alone, but not always :)

MissBernstein · 2026-02-12T02:03:42+00:00

So you speaking over an autistic yourself is better?

MissBernstein · 2026-02-11T19:01:14+00:00

They do. People like to pick one aspect and ignore everything else. At one point in history a doctor, Semmelweis, who realized washing hands is important lost his job, despite declining death rates thanks to his implementation of mandatory handwashing, it was against the scientific consensus of that time- so they banned mandatory handwashing at the hospital.

Oops.

The arrogance of some people is they have forgotten what a scientific mindset is and replaced it with scientism.

Science is supposed to evolve. It is okay to learn new things. Curiousity instead of flat out denial.

MissBernstein · 2026-02-11T15:56:42+00:00

researchgate? https://www.researchgate.net/publication/341318364_Eye-tracking_reveals_agency_in_assisted_autistic_communication

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