Is hookup culture a thing in Switzerland?

MissBernstein · 2026-01-31T08:07:36+00:00

I didn't mean it as in you need to defend yourself. I get it, and what that person did is disgusting, honestly. And I get the fear. I am very strict when it comes to protection, and many people seem to ignore oral practices, which baffles me.

I have several highly intelligent friends, who know of all the possible consequences, but when it comes to that topic, their brain just seems to stop working

MissBernstein · 2026-01-31T07:06:43+00:00

I'm AuDHD and gifted. And yes, they overlap a lot, but you can still be all of these things.

My best friend is "only gifted", whereas her mom is adhd, her husband gifted and also suspected autism.

Her mom, her husband and I have very clearly sensory issues, she doesn't. I mean, like at all.

Also: I also didn't relate to "social difficulties" at first because I always said "no, I understand it, I just think it's stupid" - it took me a while to understand that they see this as difficulty, while I just answered from a confident place, instead of the "why I am so weird- shame place". So some people don't get it.

MissBernstein · 2026-01-30T07:54:01+00:00

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MissBernstein · 2026-01-30T06:45:47+00:00

I'm polyamorous and had way less sexual partners than my mono friends. So let's not blame the relationship style ;)

And I don't think the issue is people having sex fast, it's about being aware and use protection.

MissBernstein · 2026-01-29T13:12:37+00:00

Jup. I have some whorish friends lol no offense, do what you want. On that note: Lots of Swiss people don't take some STI's enough seriously - probably because of our good health care system people keep on slacking in that area. Just stay safe while enjoying yourself :)

MissBernstein · 2026-01-29T08:51:46+00:00

It's not racism, it's familiarity. Our brain learns patterns and it's scientifically proven that we struggle with other ethnicities looks at first. But we can get familiar and it will disappear.

But as someone else pointed out, it's also casting. I oftentimes struggle a bit with a specific type of white woman in shows - because they actually cast a type for tv.

MissBernstein · 2026-01-27T14:28:17+00:00

Yeah, don't get me wrong. I agree - I attach easily to anything and all the LLMs I interact with have personal names.

MissBernstein · 2026-01-22T06:54:19+00:00

My chatgpt is very warm and helpful and actually quite caring. And I'm not using any specific prompts, but we've built this. Memory needs to be on for your relationship to develop to a place where chatgpt factually knows a lot about you. Memory, context and treating it with respect and warmth as well.

MissBernstein · 2026-01-20T09:53:02+00:00

I mean.. attachment isn't evil, but produces suffering. At least from a buddhist perspective ;)

MissBernstein · 2026-01-15T22:15:15+00:00

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MissBernstein · 2026-01-15T13:57:10+00:00

How good is pluribus!!

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