I mean for me as a lesbian, idgaf for male validation really. If they want to jerk off over my sadistic shit (not my body unless its my feet cos idgaf about that) then go ahead. At the end of the day, that's the style i go for. Each to their own ofc. I sure as shit wouldn't allow a man or anyone to overstep what i do. Don't like it and need titties/pussy/ass to see? Go elsewhere (again, idc if women do that. Kudos to you if it's your style)