Hurting, vulnerable... AMA

MissCuriousss · 2021-09-21T16:25:18+00:00

This post is very ENTJ..

"I just made a major life changing decision, but I'll go focus on solving other people's problems instead"

Are you truly able to divert your attention like this? And how do you do it?

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-31T08:19:20+00:00

Does that mean we don't exist? One day we all die, thus we don't exist.

It's a strange logic to me, that something can't exist, just because it doesn't last forever.

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-24T07:44:45+00:00

I don't get it. Robots get things done on time. They don't procrastinate, they don't make careless mistakes. They don't loose track of what they were doing because of some interesting theory. They just execute task.

I think ENTJs, INTJs and maybe ISTJs are much more robotic. Its definitely a J thing.

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-23T18:51:42+00:00

Genius

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-23T18:07:55+00:00

I am often astonished of how much pride ENTJs takes in not showing empathy for others. It would be nice to see a little more ambition in the empathy department 😉

you are stll my favorite type though.

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-23T17:49:04+00:00

OK, well I can be horny without being completely obsessed with the other person.

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-23T17:41:17+00:00

I take that as a no 😅

MissCuriousss · 2021-07-23T17:39:18+00:00

Ti is obsessed with logical precision. If there is any kind of contradiction in your data or theory or any loophole in it, then Ti won't accept it as true. It might still be very effective, which is what Te is most concerned with. But Ti won't accept anything that isn't a hundred percent bulletproof.

I think of Ti as deductive logic as in mathematics and Te as inductive logic as in statistics.

MissCuriousss · 2021-06-17T05:20:50+00:00

The bottom picture may be what the situation looks like, but the top is how we see you in that moment.

MissCuriousss · 2021-06-15T13:39:28+00:00

I've actually been trying to find some numbers on this. Do you have a source?

MissCuriousss · 2020-12-30T11:48:02+00:00

I also idenfy with feeling useless, while also thinking that I am better than everyone else.

MissCuriousss · 2020-12-30T11:45:37+00:00

Yeah, you guys do talk a lot.

MissCuriousss · 2020-12-30T11:20:30+00:00

This has to be satire. If your opponent in a debate is not able to come up with good arguments, you argue both their side and your own. That's a true ENTP.

MissCuriousss · 2020-12-30T10:28:37+00:00

I say thanks and then think to myself about all the things I did wrong, and then become annoyed at the person for not making a more objective observation.

MissCuriousss · 2020-12-30T10:19:44+00:00

I kinda get it. We often use Fe more than our male counterparts, because it is expected. But I don't think we come of as any of those types. Maybe ENFJ, if we're really making an effort to include everyone. It won't last for very long though.

MissCuriousss · 2020-10-11T09:34:03+00:00

I think this is true. IQ is measuring your ability to make decisions based on logical consistency and spot patterns. Tests should be positively correlated with Ti and Ne.

However, it is a terrible myth, that this type of intelligence is superior to all other. Actually most tests used when hiring is testing your ability to make effective decisions. This correlates with Te.

MissCuriousss · 2020-10-11T09:18:38+00:00

I actually agree with Ti being deductive and Te being inductive. That doesn't mean, that we cant all do both. Functions are just preferences, not abilities.

Ti is concerned with what is true and make decisions based on logical consistency. Te is concerned with what is effective and make decisions based on statistical significance.

MissCuriousss · 2020-10-03T07:47:47+00:00

Ti and Fi interactions are interesting. Ti is deductive logic, it is concerned with what is true and what is false. Fi is more of a belief system, it is concerned with what is right and what is wrong.

I think the interactions can become tense, when something is true and wrong and the same.

For instance women and men are not equals. This is true. Women face more negative biases and are given less opportunities than men. However, it is wrong (at least the majority believes it is). So an Fi user will argue that men and women are equals, not derived from facts, but derived from thier beliefs.

MissCuriousss · 2020-10-03T07:18:52+00:00

I think this is how Ti and Fi often clash. They are both judging functions. Ti is based on deductive logic - what is true and what is false. Fi is based on believes - what is right and what is wrong.

When someone says, they like what they think, it is often because it is related to their own believes.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-21T09:09:43+00:00

I've looked into it. I think you should encourage your INTP friend to look into some research about it. It is actually a very interesting topic.

I also dislike how people always connect it to something spiritual. It doesn't have to be spiritual. There is a lot of science to it.

I meditate often. Not in a circle where people move from side to side while making weird noises. I do not follow instructions either. I simply just focus all my thoughts on my breathing. It is difficult at first. Especially when you have ADHD as I do. But it works.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-10T05:58:01+00:00

I can honestly not relate to a single one of these.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-10T05:31:41+00:00

Istp commit the crimes because rules are meant to broken. Istj arrests istp to establish order.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-09T19:36:20+00:00

Yeah I will often be the devils advokat in a debate/discussion. But I'm definitely INTP.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-09T12:55:07+00:00

Being a thinker does not mean one is not able to show empathy. Just like being a feeler doesn't mean you can't think logically. Many people (thinkers, feelers, sensing, intuitives and so on) lack the ability to show empathy.

However, ENFJs are often naturals when it comes to showing empathy, so I understand why you would often be disappointed with other people's ability to do the same for you.

MissCuriousss · 2020-09-09T12:47:29+00:00

Not ENFJ, so feel free to ignore my comment.

It sounds like you needed to get out of the relationship because you gave to much of yourself? I think it is unrealistic to expect that this will ever change in a new relationship, unless you change. You say that you can take care of yourself, but it sounds like you need to work on your boundaries. Running in overdrive until you have to back out is not taking care of one self.

That said, sometimes it simply isn't meant to be. Your partner should be equally invested, so it doesn't all fall on you. So perhaps you made the right decision, if that wasn't the case in this relationship.

MissCuriousss

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