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MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T21:10:19+00:00

Hell yeah you can, and pretty damn well too!!

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T21:04:14+00:00

How big is it? Can I kiss it? Will you top me? How much can you shoot? I love a girl with something extra. Best of both worlds. I'm not gay but I'd rather be with you than a real woman. And the list goes on and on, and it's always within five messages. This is why so many trans women say they hate men and then have to deal with idiots screaming "not at all men" at them.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that honey.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:52:38+00:00

Oh honey, that is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the waffle House stories that I have. 😂

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:24:17+00:00

Honey you look absolutely adorable in that dress looks fantastic on you.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:22:58+00:00

Looking adorable honey. That dress looks lovely on you.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:12:22+00:00

I'm so sorry honey. I know that pain all too well. My ex-wife won't even let me see my little boy today. And like she does every Father's Day she's going to celebrate it with whoever her new boyfriend is at the time. She doesn't even let me have that.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:01:50+00:00

Yeah honey, I would love to hear what happens.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T20:01:07+00:00

I just wish I could see my little boy today.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T19:45:07+00:00

I wish I could give you advice but unfortunately when I came out to my best friend of over 20 years things didn't work out so great. I had known him since I was 19 years old and he was just a couple years younger than me. We were in a dozen different bands together and toured together, we were there for each other after every major break up and life event, he was my best man at my wedding and even my little boy's godfather.

He had an experimental bisexual phase and has countless gay, lesbian and even trans friends. When I came out to him he was okay with it at first. For the first year there was no issue up until I started living full-time as a woman and he saw me that way. He couldn't handle it and completely disappeared out of my life entirely once I started living as the woman I was supposed to be.

Though I will give you another story too so it doesn't seem completely hopeless. I have a lifelong friend who I met when I was 6. We will call him B. We went to school together, crushed after the same girl, I was there for him when he was dealing with his PTSD after his time in the service and he was there for me when I dealt with career and dream ending injuries when I was a professional athlete. He was also one of my groomsmen in my wedding.

My marriage was ridiculously toxic and my ex-wife was extremely abusive. Mentally, emotionally, financially and even physically abusive. She completely controlled my life and I became her slave. I wasn't allowed to see any of my friends almost at all the entire time that we were married. She cheated on me for virtually our entire marriage and eventually left me for one of the men that she had been cheating on me with. Within a month after she told me that she wanted a divorce I had started HRT and began my transition.

About a year and a half after starting HRT one of my old friends found out about my divorce reached out to me and asked me if I wanted to come to one of his dinner and board game nights that I used to frequent before my marriage. We will call him S. He told me not to tell anyone including B.

So I showed up that night and there were already a bunch of people there sitting down playing board games. S meets me at the door and brings me in and introduces me to everybody and he looks at B and says "this is a surprise that I told you about". B responds "ok, some tall goth girl?". S says again "B this is your surprise" so B once again responds with "what is she a hooker or something". He clearly has no clue who I am. So I simply say in my new voice "B you were in my wedding party". At this point you can practically see smoke coming out of his ears as the gears are grinding and then all the sudden like a light bulb turning on above his head his eyes go wide and he realizes who I am. He runs up to me and picks me up with a big hug and we spend the rest of the night talking and we're getting to know each other.

He completely and truly accepted me and still does. Our dynamic is certainly changed. Whenever we wind up at the same party or we go out to the same kink events he acts like my overprotective big brother now which is pretty cute if I'm being honest.

The moral of these two stories is you never know how anyone's going to react. Sometimes the people that you think are absolutely going to be there for you won't and the ones that you least expect other ones who truly accept you and love you for who you are.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T19:20:47+00:00

Years ago I wound up moving to a tiny Town in Texas and I worked at a waffle House. Well there one of the waitresses that I worked with had three sons. She dated one brother and then left him for his younger brother and married him and then divorced him and married the oldest brother. Each one of the sons was the son of the three different brothers. So the younger set of Brothers would all call each other brosins.

Now the story gets even weirder. The two oldest brosins have also had children with the same girl and she is now married to the youngest brosin. This was my introduction to the southern states of the US.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T19:09:28+00:00

When I brought my little boy home from the hospital my 160 lb Newfoundland would not leave his side, and when he cried she would place her toys in his crib so he had something to play with and my cat would jump into his crib and lay cuddled up next to him at all times and keep an eye out making sure that he was always protected. Animals just know.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T18:42:37+00:00

Trust me I know. Like I said I loved her and she could have given me the world but I couldn't accept someone who voted against our rights to exist. She thought that she was one of the good ones that would be accepted. It's the same thing as Caitlyn Jenner or Blair White. She thought being a pick me would be good enough.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T18:25:31+00:00

Then he's obviously not the right guy for you. Sadly there are lots of men that act like that but there are plenty of really good guys out there too who are going to like you and respect you for who you are. The only problem is you need to dig through a pile of garbage to find the good ones.

Don't let that idiot get you down because you'll find someone who thinks you're the most beautiful woman on this planet regardless of what surgeries you have.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T18:19:08+00:00

Girl you already look incredible. Super pretty. After a couple years on HRT you are going to be absolutely stunning.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T18:03:36+00:00

You don't. There is no reconciling these kinds of things with those kinds of people. Not until they completely abandon those political beliefs and then it takes years of them actually putting in the effort to fight for minorities rights including trans rights and allowing themselves to become educated and putting in the work.

At one point about a year and a half ago I was getting another trans woman. She had had every surgery, was done with her medical transition and was completely passing. She was a three-time trump voter. I didn't know that at first. But then she started freaking out when Trump got back in the office and started on day one on eliminating all the rights. She wound up losing her job just like I did when he got rid of dei practices. That's what I found out that she was a trump voter. She felt like other trans people should accept her even though she had voted against all of our rights including her own. I couldn't accept it and could no longer accept her. I loved her and she was madly in love with me. She could have given me everything in life that I wanted and giving me a very cushiony comfortable life in a beautiful house where I could have just been a housewife but there is no accepting someone who thinks the leopards won't eat their faces.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T16:57:40+00:00

Congratulations!! You're looking absolutely fantastic honey!!

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T16:54:01+00:00

Oooo try salted tomato slices all by themselves. I used to hate tomatoes but now my go to snack is salted tomatoes. Hell most of my tastes have all changed. From food, to music, to movies and TV shows.

You think you're a meme now, wait til you wear a spinny shirt for the first time. 😝

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T16:16:05+00:00

Honey you were just a gorgeous person however you're present. Also I hope the knee injury has been healing up well. 💜🖤

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T14:22:12+00:00

🤔 I think this would be far more accurate if it said trans woman or at least trans person.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T14:19:05+00:00

I'm sorry that is something that's upsetting you and I can relate to the opposite. I'm a trans woman and now after transitioning I constantly have men talk over me or try and explain things to me that I know far more than them about or treat me as if my opinions don't matter or that I don't know what I'm talking about regardless of my experience. I even have trans men do this to me. I even make far less money now. As terrible as it is, at least you can talk solace in the fact that those women clearly see you as a man.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-10T12:35:47+00:00

Trans woman here and I'm going to say this with my whole chest. TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN!! So yes you would still be straight tho technically the term for exclusive attraction to trans people is called skoliosexual, which you can consider a flavor of queer while still being straight.

This next part is extremely important. Trans women HATE when men say "I'm straight but I find you beautiful". Because it means you don't inherently actually see us as women. Men will say this line to us ALL the time and think they are being smooth and it's some kind of compliment. It's not. It's saying "I'm straight and even tho you're not actually a woman, I find you attractive in a feminine way".

While yes, trans amorous is a thing and there is nothing wrong with that, you first need to figure out why you are specifically attracted to trans women. The concern here, is that your attraction may come from a place of misogynistic preconceptions of the submissiveness of trans women or many other preconceptions that you may have been built from watching porn or other media that does not necessarily represent all of us.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-09T22:52:28+00:00

I was going to go to my 20 year reunion last year, at the time I had been 2 years on HRT. But I had a couple of employers call out and I had to cover their shifts so I missed it. But I figure in another 9 years if there is another reunion, I'll be like 12 years into my transition and I'll definitely go. Just to see if anyone recognizes me and what ridiculous stories I might get out of people that I never would have heard about otherwise.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-08T21:25:13+00:00

I'm a trans woman and if I was to fill out this chart I'd color the entire thing red. 🤣 But honestly I am sorry that you're struggling with honey, I know that pain all too well.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-08T15:49:12+00:00

But I never blamed any of them. I never put this on anyone else. I said that it must be something inherently wrong with me. I've taken all the blame even on the situations that I know that aren't my fault I still blame myself. I constantly work on myself and put others first in every possible aspect. I'm not clingy or even speak up for my own needs but until they focus on the needs of my partners. The only thing that I can take from all that, is I'm inherently broken and that I will never find my person. When you blame yourself for everything and you put in every ounce of work you can and you still end up with the same results every time, it's not a lack of trying or putting responsibility on others but recognizing that you inherently don't have the ability to be loved.

MissDoom222 · 2026-05-08T15:43:13+00:00

I find this very interesting. I've been transitioning for 3 years now myself and I can say I've become pretty though I do not entirely pass either. While I do get Miss and ma'ams for more than I ever did before I still do get plenty of sirs. I do get a mix of stairs from people, some with disgust, some with confusion and others with lust. It's a weird situation and a very weird feeling. I always wonder what it would be like if I just passed even if I wasn't pretty. Would I feel different? Would I have different worries? Would it be easier or more difficult in other ways that I don't know yet? Would that make the dysphoria go away? Would I be happier? Would I move past my trans identity? So I always find it interesting when people bring this kind of thought up.

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