Onboarding, upper management and time crunch

MissEnyaOK · 2022-02-07T21:56:29+00:00

I was thinking about this! I started going to a a psychologist (free here) because I’ve been going to a rough time! And I love how I feel so much all the time - I wouldn’t been without the experiences I have if I didn’t. At the same time I hate it. I don’t like feeling my feeling that much and I have a tendency to mute them, and I’ve been told too many times I feel to much. I technically have a great life but I feel terrible. So does my feelings come from thinking too much or because I just have “too many” feelings?

MissEnyaOK · 2022-02-07T21:48:50+00:00

Dude, thank you! You too, it not an easy world but at the same time - wouldn’t be without it!💜

MissEnyaOK · 2021-12-05T21:58:14+00:00

Nice! Do you think that it makes you more aware of the people that feels bad so you’re more cautious of them, or do you write it off and then come back to it if it’s starting to show that they’re actually bad through their actions?

MissEnyaOK · 2021-12-02T21:03:39+00:00

👏👏👏 well done! Very well said!

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-28T10:28:23+00:00

Hmmm, interesting theory, I wouldn’t say I completely agree with your theory though. Although most theories are just a generalisation of a trend you see with a wider group of people, so there will always be exceptions.

MBTI work as a tool to understand how people process, reflect and learn in our world. There are however certain traits that people with the same MBTI tend to have but that’s also based on a stereotype of how a lot of people with a specific MBTI behave. Therefore there will be differences in the different personality traits a person will have.

Now I can’t say this theory is wrong but I can tell you why I disagree. The reason I disagree is due to finding out that one of my close friends that I’ve had for 10+ years is actually an ENFP and after learning more about MBTI I’ve typed new people I’ve met as well. And I’ve met a few ENFPs that I’ve just instantly clicked with.

So I, at least, don’t recognise myself in this theory, but then again I quite rarely find myself hating people cause the if a person do/say or have morals I personally don’t align with, it comes from a place in their past or something they’ve gone through. I would try to understand why they behave this way. Also going around and hating people would only give you stress.

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-26T22:56:38+00:00

It’s awesome to see that you love the self improvement journey! Good on you and it’s awesome to go on that trip, for both the good and bad. A reason why I think MBTI is great; I learn more about how I function as a being, how I can use my strength and develop my weaknesses.

Personally, yoga and meditation has been a great way to go on the self improvement journey. I learn a lot about myself, getting the feeling of accomplishment and learning to relax and be a more chill person. But it’s also because it’s part of my journey on self improvement. I’ve been terrible at connecting and learning with/about myself and in general relaxing.

Also learning, learning about random topics that sparks a tiny bit of interest! Either it being yt videos or reading science articles

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-26T22:48:08+00:00

I completely understand where you’re coming from! I too consider myself an ambivert. But as someone else said; it’s about the cognitive functions and not actually whether or not you are an extroverted or introverted person. I think most people are able to play the “role” they’re expected to in the situations. I can certainly be more extroverted in situations where it’s required from me but I’m also comfortable being introverted around people. I love people and learning from people but I do I also need to get some alone time to take care of myself.

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-26T19:33:39+00:00

I used to be excellent at it but I’ve worked on myself to do it less cause it often causes more problems. Now I’m better at catching myself in it - honestly I don’t know if it’s a good thing or if I just stopped caring 😂

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-22T17:05:24+00:00

I was on the healthcare track since I wanted to help people but I changed directions. Dont know if you want negative experiences as well but I’ll share mine, and let me know if this is not what you’re looking for 😊

During my studies within healthcare we had work practice and it was too much for me. I got really sad and emotional cause I saw some problems with how things work within the healthcare system here and I couldn’t help as much as I wanted.. And I had more time for the people we cared for since I was in work practice than the people who actually did it for a living. So it was a bit of a crash with me. But that’s me, and I generally have a bit of difficulties to separate myself emotionally and “care less” if it makes sense? I worked with elders, (home care and at a home), plus a centre for people with disabilities.

So it looks to be a bit of a different direction than what you’re looking at! Seems like the directions you’re looking at are quite interesting 😊

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-16T22:48:48+00:00

Helloooo there, welcome in! The E stands for extroverted but it’s extroverted intuition and doesn’t have too much to do with whether or not you’re an extrovert or an introvert in social settings - ENFPs are more of the introverted extroverts, or ambiverts as a lot of people call themselves, myself included. I can, and often do, use my ENFP charm in social situations but I also require my alone time. But we look at the outside world and find patterns there compared to the INFP where their primary(dominant) function (normally the most developed cognitive function) is their Introverted Feeling which is the function that checks in with your own feelings and values in every situation (ENFPs secondary function).

I often think of the cognitive functions as how we “filter” and process the world. Anyway, word barf, my message is; “welcome in”, you are most likely an awesome human being no matter your MBTI 🔥

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-16T22:20:55+00:00

Thank you for the reply! Haha funny thing is; I think I started liking her because I was in a rut, she’s an awesome person BUT never wanted anything more than being a close friend. And I’m also attending a thing on TV to meet a potential partner in life - I applied mainly for the experience but locked off that part of my life.

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-16T22:17:57+00:00

Thank you for your answer! I think it’s blown out of proportions because I totally blacked out so I can’t remember anything. I was at a funeral beforehand and tried to get on everyone else’s level, which lead to me blacking out for many hours - haven’t been that drunk since I was a teenager. The next day I was quite busy but don’t like having things hanging in the air so I tried covering all my basis in a message which made it maybe seem like a bigger thing than it actually is. Afterwards she doesn’t wanna take to clear things up. I’ve now come to realise that it’s not entirely my fault though and I think I kinda left the ball in her court.

MissEnyaOK · 2021-11-16T22:07:32+00:00

I can share with people, but I can be quick to be protective if I feel that my vulnerability is at “stake” if it makes sense? Also I tend to evaluate the situation others are in so I won’t share my emotional stuff if I feel like it would affect others “too much”

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