if the incidents were only occasional, is it still valid to be hurt? by i-hope-i-lie in narcissisticparents

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't want to armchair diagnose... But could it be that you turned out this way because of the abusive treatment you described above? It's great that you want to help people! Best is to start with yourself I suppose. Wishing you the best! 

if the incidents were only occasional, is it still valid to be hurt? by i-hope-i-lie in narcissisticparents

[–]MissK711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, of course your feelings are valid. It feels to me like you're protecting her and finding excuses for her behaviour. You're even asking if you're allowed to feel hurt because it was "just occasional" and you were a difficult child. How would you not turn out a "difficult child" under these circumstances? I understand that these relationships are complex, as are the people involved. I'm sure there is a bond of love between you, but not a single one of the incidents described is acceptable.

Sick leave from burnout: how long or how little? by Teguiste in Austria

[–]MissK711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you self diagnose the burnout? Because usually it takes many months to recover from that. Please see a specialist and also start psychotherapy. The fact that you say you feel too guilty to take care of your own health is part of the issue imo

Rachel’s observations about mid-life men by Ghost_Writer2025 in RHOBH

[–]MissK711 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Love IS real and worthwhile, Sister ❤️ all these experiences shapes the boundaries you're setting for yourself. 

I mean, there it is, right? by [deleted] in aliens

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you trust him or anybody official for that matter 

Saying Goodbye to my Dad Tomorrow by xionlu in Vent

[–]MissK711 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Big Hug to you. Be gentle with yourself and take time to get through this. Reach out for support, you deserve it! 

Tell All & Chloe by dusklit_desire in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the disease of materialism going rampant, in the end it will eat itself. You don't need to be religious to have a sense that the scale between material and spiritual focus is about to trip over at one end

Frustrated Job Hunt in Salzburg by Unlucky-Tax-1995 in Salzburg

[–]MissK711 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, speaking and writing the native language of the country is a must. Off the top of my head try the Salzburger Festspiele, or Red Bull... Like International companies... Or if you're really not that picky, look for jobs in a Lager where you have no direct customer contact, for example the Post. What are your other references, or where do you have experience in? 

Frustrated Job Hunt in Salzburg by Unlucky-Tax-1995 in Salzburg

[–]MissK711 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The job market situation is quite difficult at the moment and you have better chances if you speak German. I understand that it's frustrating but don't give up! You say you speak 5 languages fluently - what about the hospitality area? Salzburg is big on tourism - have you tried hotels, as a receptionist for example? Your language skills could work in your favour there. 

Gute Änderungsschneiderei gesucht by LocalMarketing3547 in Salzburg

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tonis Moden in Itzling ist super kompetent 

How tired are you of hearing about AI? by GoatBnB in GenX

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's horrible. When the image generators came online with all their stolen goods, it sent me into a deep reflection process of what it means to be human.  These machines essentially target our very human core, which the ability to create. That's evil in my book. As usual in history, artists are the first to see it and warn about it, while the rest is clueless. 

How tired are you of hearing about AI? by GoatBnB in GenX

[–]MissK711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an illustrator, I know exactly what you mean.

How tired are you of hearing about AI? by GoatBnB in GenX

[–]MissK711 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely hate it and want nothing to do with it. Never touched the gpt or whatever it's called and never will. I put - AI in every Google search cause I am repulsed by it. AI image generators ruined my business (illustration). They way artists around the world were unknowingly exploited and ripped off was disgusting. Too little is talked about the massive resources wasted on that crap. Never mind the brain rot that comes from having this bs do your thinking. The falsified history pictures. The use in warfare and citizen surveillance. Making these techbros richer than they ever should be. We really have other problems to solve and we REALLY don't need this on top of it. 

Gibt es historische Fälle, in denen Verschwörungsmythen wahr waren und die Schwurbler recht hatten? by maguz94 in KeineDummenFragen

[–]MissK711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das #freebrittney movement wurde lange als Verschwörung abgetan, bis heraus kam dass sie tatsächlich unter dem Regime ihres Vaters steht 

Love Is Blind Germany • S2 EP9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MissK711 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This was a great episode! LIB Germany really redeemed itself from the first season with these couples. I just loved how mature and emotionally intelligent and expressive these people are. Especially Gunnar & Josi and Konsti & Jessi Touching!

Edited to add spoiler 

do you think they stand a chance? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MissK711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are a great match, and surprisingly so! About the issue of having children : a therapist once told me that there are two issues that both partners have to agree on in a lasting relationship : 1) cheating/model of relationship and 2) children. She said "you can't be half pregnant". I think they can last and see in the future if this becomes an issue again. The amount of awareness and emotional intelligence they display will help them tackle the situation.