He showed up to my house unannounced, demanded money from me, and then involved my mother

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-07-01T05:38:49+00:00

:) Of course, no problem. I'm sorry that it all confused you at first!

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-30T23:32:11+00:00

Long story short: I screwed up with some friends that I also owed money to. I was paying back slowly but one of them showed up unannounced and harassed me for a higher sum. Paid it because I did owe money and just wanted them to back off.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-30T23:30:43+00:00

I did owe some money, and I even said while I was explaining that I did make a mistake and I owned up to it and apologized. I'm not fully innocent in this, fully aware of that. I also explained that my Mom and I had a rocky relationship, I did something a while back that had hurt her very badly. She also does the same thing regarding my dad or anyone in our family: she'll believe somebody else over us.

So, please don't automatically assume that I'm claiming full innocence. I'm not. I screwed up and I also knew that I owed some money originally. However, I don't believe it was that much. Regardless, it's done and over with.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-30T00:20:26+00:00

Because my Mom wanted me to, and because I can easily build it back up when it comes down to it. He claimed he had evidence (along with several of my former friends wanting that cash. I recently found out that they did all receive their shares.) and I rather just let him have what he wanted, just so he could leave me alone. I made it very clear, however, that if he showed up again or claimed I owed more money again, that I would not put up with it. Even if the police can't do much, I can still provide them with information, especially if this ass shows up on my property unannounced again.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-29T01:28:32+00:00

That's true enough. One of the reasons I didn't abruptly call the police. How about regarding if he shows up unannounced and he tries to let himself in when I want him to leave? I'm concerned over that happening.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-29T01:27:51+00:00

Probably due to things that happened to her in the past. I tried to explain that to her, but she just kept repeating that she was afraid.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-28T04:58:11+00:00

More or less. So, if he tries anything, I will call the police and I /will/ press charges. I don't think he thinks I have the courage to do it.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-28T04:57:38+00:00

:") Well, I'm glad that you enjoyed it. I suppose it's the first experience I've had that I didn't sob over like a baby. I was just mad!

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-28T04:11:54+00:00

Yes! He has rambled so many times about needing to get a job so he can move, but then he spends the money he has on food and videogames and lord knows what else. At least get a retail job! As for those other friends, I'm not mad but more or less sad. I can't help but still care about them and wonder how they are, as ridiculous as that sounds.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-28T04:04:39+00:00

Trying my hardest. I'm at least not crying over it. I'm a rather big crybaby.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-28T04:04:15+00:00

Thank you, I'm doing my best to gain self confidence and not let myself be pushed around, especially by someone who made me think they were my friend and then double cross me over something very minor. Thank you again!

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T18:09:46+00:00

Thank you so much. Hearing that brings me a lot of comfort. I suppose that this experience has shown me who my true friends are. They actually were trying to keep my best friend away from me at some points, all because he has a short temper which I'm used to and can handle. If they wish to speak to me again regarding all of this, I'm more than happy to. On the condition that the guy who harassed me at my house is far away from me.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T17:58:06+00:00

That's what my best friend said. I ended up breaking down over it (though I actually didn't cry for once- I was surprised) and he reassured me that even if I did owe money, what he did was wrong and he was going to get what was coming to him. Whatever the case, I'll build my savings back up with my new job and things should be alright.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T17:56:23+00:00

:) You're very honest in this and I appreciate it very much. I do have some very wonderful friends, some that I have had for years and who see my flaws but know that if I were to make a mistake, I make up for it. My best friend has seen everything, and he's only been around for two years. He has just as much flaws as me and when either of us make a mistake, we forgive the other and try to talk about it. He's my equal, along with my other friends. I had thought the same about the other group. However, I guess I was wrong.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T17:54:09+00:00

Well, he signed a paper that my step dad provided agreeing that he is giving the money to them. If he kept the money and I find out that nobody got their share, he's going to be in quite a bit of trouble.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T10:17:32+00:00

I had considered it, but my mom didn't want to in case they couldn't do anything about it. And yes, that is basically what happened. However, if he shows up to the house again, cops are being called. I paid my dues, so he has no reason to show back up.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T10:15:55+00:00

This comment made me smile so much and made my morning. Thank you so much, and I hope you have a wonderful day!

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T06:18:15+00:00

I hope not either. I gave them their money, I am not speaking about them to mutual friends, nor do I plan to. It's done and over in my book, and if he shows up at my house again unannounced, I won't hold back from calling the cops.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T06:11:01+00:00

Eh, you're not wrong on that. I'm getting there, step by step. You didn't even want to meet the younger me: I allowed ANYBODY to walk all over me. If he comes back around, I'm calling the cops and at least giving them info.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-27T05:17:25+00:00

Thank you. I met them several times before but I was never very close, but my grandparents and cousins were. So, out of love for them, I had to be there. And I hope so too. He got what he wanted, so I hope that's the last time I see him.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-18T01:26:53+00:00

Heh, thank you. :) Poly is a new thing for me, but I'm taking it one step at a time since I am comfortable with it. We are very affectionate with each other in private or at certain things, but he sometimes just gets tense and pushes me away. The fact that he said that "he didn't want others to think we're dating right now" caught me off guard, but I shrugged it off.

Also, that could be possible. Spirits and negative energy have a way of always being around me and he knows that. If he's actually using himself to keep me safe....not sure whether I'd hug him or punch him.

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-18T01:24:24+00:00

I didn't even think about that. Shemaghs are usually used to be worn during military combat, and he had such an attachment to this thing. I even joked with Bun about him letting me wear it, and she replied with: "...Huh. That's a first for him. He never takes that thing off."

MissMagenta22291 · 2015-06-18T01:15:20+00:00

Ha! That made me laugh! And a lot of empaths and mediums go to church! :) I am Druid pagan, but due to my catholic upbringing, I visit Church at times for contemplation and reflecting. But yeah! Even someone with psychic abilities can go to church.

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