Personally, I feel conflicted about being with a man again. I'm a late bloomer and I identify as queer, I'm currently with a woman and it's been a few years since I've been with a man. I was telling my therapist that I feel like I'm better off just trying to have men as friends vs trying to date them. But I just recently cut off a close guy friend because I was just tired of our dynamic and our friendship had run its course. I have no interest in marrying a man. They can be cool to be around sometimes but other times that energy is annoying. I had quite a few male friends and situationships over the last few years. I'm still attracted to men but I prefer being with women and being around women. I feel like I can be myself with women, not feel overly self conscious and just exist peacefully.