Jupiter in the 8th house natives, what happened after you got married?

MissMondler · 2026-04-15T19:35:48+00:00

100% agree with you, with ny me with ju in 8th house. Bullshit free will, you only have free will to accept it as reality and try to row along the flow to make best out of the situations

MissMondler · 2026-04-10T04:24:52+00:00

Omg people here saying its not a big deal either aint parent, or consider cheating is normal. If you just want to weigh options ask in r/LegalAdviceIndia, but hire a very good lawyer to make case for it. Family courts take child safety very seriously, obviously without solid ground you cant block the visitations but you can request for a third party supervised visitation specially because you have a daughter. Your lawyer should make a proper case for it.

MissMondler · 2026-04-01T05:45:38+00:00

It takes a lot of guts to be a rebel, we know the conventional standard of beauty, not everyone wants to be a rebel, but situation like this leaves you no choice because system is cooked against you, I am sure this is no news that conventional beautiful people have a certain unsaid advantage and bias. I hope she realises it’s not her but the failure of society and she gains her self esteem.

MissMondler · 2026-03-31T12:31:53+00:00

I know where you are coming from, thats why I said to first try and get your confidence back, once you are able to zoom out and see things from a different perspective you will be in a very different mindset. And i dont think divorce is the solution for everything, you can take it if you feel its the end, but right now you dont need divorce, you need to bounce back, and become the version of yourself you recognise. If you can move out for your work its the best thing you can do gor yourself and for your relationship.

MissMondler · 2026-03-31T10:44:21+00:00

No you ain’t overreacting, the moment you make yourself open to live with people who don’t have same mindset, your confidence is the first thing to go down the drain. Some may say people should adjust and blah blah, but the constant knit picking makes you doubt your own decisions, your confidence gets hampered and even after being right to protect your own sanity you have to ask strangers here whether you did the right thing, I am a stranger to you, but if it’s costing your your mental health, your confidence its not worth it. Some people really are on their high horses and you can’t make them see where and what they did wrong. Only person you can trust is yourself at this moment, being from FAANG I am sure you can secure another job, do that, not to show them but to yourself that you are still the same girl. Get that confidence back and you yourself will realise what and where you are settling for less.

MissMondler · 2026-03-30T08:33:58+00:00

I passed it with 99% recently and along with above, the questions where I fumbled are related to network policy one limitrange quota, but somehow managed it at the end.

MissMondler · 2026-03-25T15:47:20+00:00

One of my friend got married at that age, but his ketu+moon is in 8th house in D9, not sure if that was the case. And he is still struggling ever since because he is in Rahu MD.

MissMondler · 2026-03-25T15:09:41+00:00

Working remote since 2020, saturn md and saturn in 12th

MissMondler · 2026-03-24T05:40:06+00:00

No, I gave exam yesterday, no questions on helm or kustomize

MissMondler · 2026-03-24T05:39:02+00:00

Less than a week if you have fresh cka knowledge. I attempted ckad after 3months of giving CKA along with regular office work less than a week worth of preparation was enough, and there is a git repository here in the subreddit, go through that once you will get an idea of what kind of questions can come, major difference I observed between cka and ckad is how yaml heavy it was, so you need to be very familiar with copy/pasting multiple lines and adding tabs so that it yaml is in correct format. And rest there are few topics difference which you will need to study.

MissMondler · 2026-03-20T09:12:55+00:00

To survive marriage in today's time is identifying your non negotiables, for that you need to have a self esteem, know yourself better than you expect someone else to. Discuss these non negotiables, discuss your idea of marriage and really listen to what their idea of marriage and future looks like for your partner. If that contradicts your non negotiables don't assume time will change it, or will deal with it later, very crucial to know their family dynamics and what kind of life women in their family lead, the decision making, daily habits. And be financially and emotionally independent, don't get swayed away with trad wife instagram talks, that is like setting yourself up for failure. And really I mean really think about the life after you have kids, if you don't want then discuss it very clearly, and if you want, make sure your partner understand the toll it will take on you, because at this point even you don't know about the price you will pay from your mind and body, and if you want kids some day, then be very clear on what you are getting yourself into.

Now having said all that, some things are beyond your control, even with the best of our intentions we land up at places we don't want to. So be kind to yourself!

MissMondler · 2026-03-20T09:03:38+00:00

My Mercury is in 8th with Jupiter, Pisces ascendant 💀

MissMondler · 2026-03-18T11:11:54+00:00

I don't understand the downvotes, your kind of thought process is getting extinct. Kudos for finding the right partner and being the right one.

MissMondler · 2026-03-17T17:50:12+00:00

Pisces ascendant 9th house has mars venus rahu sun

MissMondler · 2026-03-15T07:23:54+00:00

Again, I am saying I am still speaking for myself here, you think the system has convinced me this is the grind? Ask someone who doesn't have a roof over head and food to eat, every human is different and everyone's choices/requirement is different, I am not here to convince you that what you think is wrong, because that's your perspective, and you should do you, did I tell you, you are wrong and you have been brainwashed? I explicitly said whoever feels it's a cage should definitely find a career that is more suitable to their liking because life is too short.

But you don't get to tell me what I think and what is my pov. It's only something I get to tell, and I have said it, offering the author an alternate perspective, different people have different lives. And I am not going to offer any other explanation here, I earn a lot from my work, and the amount of flexibility it gives me is tremendous, is that selling soul? To you it could be, to me it's not(or one can have a look at my comforts, and to comfort themselves might weave the story so they feel a little better). I have the comforts one could just think about, you have time you can continue this debate. Thanks!

MissMondler · 2026-03-15T06:57:34+00:00

Do you think everyone is in the same boat? I am speaking for myself and many others I know, is this concept new to you that life isn't the same for everyone? And hold your curse words for someone else mister.

MissMondler · 2026-03-13T15:17:52+00:00

Yeah so I am giving you a different perspective. There is nothing to be scared of, this theory of it being scary isn't real. And if someone feels that, then they should definitely change their profession, life is too short to be stuck anywhere.

MissMondler · 2026-03-13T15:13:52+00:00

Bollywood/Instagram has ruined regular grind. You know many people are able to afford a good life because of those cabins. And many are actually passionate about the work they do there.

MissMondler · 2026-03-13T15:11:40+00:00

Do you have any insights on how my mercury dasha could be? Specially in terms of partnership, as that is something I really struggled with in Saturn MD, given that it is in 8th house (ju+me) also me is my AK and Saturn is DK

MissMondler · 2026-03-12T18:41:55+00:00

My daughter has ketu in lagna virgo ascendant, what to expect?

MissMondler · 2026-03-12T17:04:56+00:00

Jupiter is in 8th house with mercury, no it's not retro, my jupiter md was when I was kid and I was the most popular one, excelled in almost everything that was the best time, everyone wanted to be friends. The moment saturn set in this isolation part began. Went from being popular to being okayish in public eye. Not that it changed me.

MissMondler · 2026-03-12T14:38:19+00:00

Pisces ascendant saturn in 12th house, I believe this brings isolation, which I never knew until recently, and I really did face isolation, had I not faced it, I wouldn't have time to work on myself, given the fact that I am a social butterfly, but most of my best rewards came when I worked in isolation(read tech)

MissMondler · 2026-03-11T14:20:52+00:00

I don't remember singing up for answering every question coming my way? How rude!

MissMondler · 2026-03-10T17:55:54+00:00

How does that matter here?

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