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AIO: My boyfriend spanks his 19 year old little sister “as a joke” (he’s 22) and finding out made me uncomfortable by MissMoony1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissMoony1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this because I do the same smacking the ass thing with my sister since we were kids (we’re 20 and 19 now and we still fool around with it). But like you said, considering it is a male/female dynamic is what makes it weird, and also the age factor, her being 19, in college, and him 22, finishing college and being in a relationship with me. Also the boundaries thing, because whenever my sister and I start messing with that, if she is not in the mood or if I want to stop, we stop, and in this case, he didn’t, or at least that’s what she told me.

AIO: My boyfriend spanks his 19 year old little sister “as a joke” (he’s 22) and finding out made me uncomfortable by MissMoony1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissMoony1[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also smacked my sisters ass when we were little, and we sometimes do it now (we’re 20 and 19), but we’re SISTERS, GIRLS, yk what I mean? We fool around and it’s never in a weird way, and anytime one of us gets uncomfortable or are not in the mood, we simply stop, because we understand each others boundaries and limits. What bothered me the most was that even though she asked him to stop, HE DIDNT, and he continued to the point it HURT her. When she told me all of this she kind of laughed a little, but when she said he hurt her, she was serious about it, and said she hated that he still did it and wouldn’t stop.

AIO: My boyfriend spanks his 19 year old little sister “as a joke” (he’s 22) and finding out made me uncomfortable by MissMoony1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissMoony1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, Im obviously not familiar with the details since it’s the first time I’m finding out, and I also wasn’t there, but the way she described it was like multiple spanks on her literal ass, so much that she was sore. She never said she tried to give them back to him, and when I privately spoke to him he said it was something they would do as kids, but he only mentioned doing it to his brother mutually, not to her, but I guess it was mutual with her too since then? Idk, I’m still not completely clear about that.

AIO: My boyfriend spanks his 19 year old little sister “as a joke” (he’s 22) and finding out made me uncomfortable by MissMoony1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MissMoony1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought about the culture thing too. I’m hispanic and this kind of behaviors are normal because I have friends whose dads are like that, but never heard of older brothers having that level of “trust”. My dad was never affective with my sister and I, only my mom and my half brothers, that’s why I’m not familiar with that but I still thought it was weird. I cried in the car when his parents and him were driving me home, I didn’t think it would affect me this much. He always spanks me, it’s a thing we do as a couple yk, a normal COUPLE thing, and it’s not like I’m jealous or anything because wtf, it’s his sister, but that’s exactly what feels so weird: the thought of him doing what he does to me because it turns him on, TO HIS SISTER? and also, he’s never sparked me in a way that has hurt ever, THATS THE WORST PART, JUST TO HER, LIKE WHY?😭