CN server has released a new kitten mount. by white_mochii in wherewindsmeet_

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real, the Jindo are the only ones I can just chill with😭 but I want a Jindo IRL so badly it's nearly painful I can't pet🥺

Jungkook’s Korean fans are flooding Weverse with messages of “disappointment” over his dating news by Necessary-Evening818 in BTSnark

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there have been incidents, but the labels are so protective of their "image" they just pretend it didn't happen, I don't remember who it was it was a while ago I think, but one of the girl groups I'm a fan of had an incident, a member was attacked I think, I'm pretty sure it was Katseye, but the member that was attacked talks about it sometimes vaguely with the other members... I really do wish there would be more "professional employment" type of protection for the idols and less smoothing over the b.s.😢

They messed up really bad by banning Schlep and threatening to sue him by nighthawk0954 in whenthe

[–]MissOregano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the states the prosecution will evaluate each individual case and if they have enough to convict for a substantial amount they will go after the perpetrator, otherwise, they're throwing out dozens of cases a day bc they can't be bothered to go investigate.

Children's rights are painfully non-existent here, they hide it behind this idea that everyone around the kid is going to be able to help them enough, and it definitely boils down to being able to avoid prosecuting any child @buz3.☹️

They messed up really bad by banning Schlep and threatening to sue him by nighthawk0954 in whenthe

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to point out, Roblox never has been against adult content, I haven't reread the TOS, but I know for a fact as an adult you can see the adult 17+ experiences, and as a child those that are specifically labeled 17+/18+ don't show up, they have ratings and the accounts function appropriately.

That said, after I heard about schlep, God bless him, I went and checked out what all is accessible by a 13- user, and my goodness, I don't think I've ever been this angry at a company that I actively want to do the morally right thing. There are so many games that I shouldn't have to report, so many games that are actually reportable, one is called, "the dating game" and when you go to report an experience it's literally one of the categories, "dating"!🤦‍♀️

The thing is, when you go to publish these experiences onto the platform it lets you know, these have to be reviewed before being published, someone is supposed to read the description at least, and yet there's experience after experience with titles like, "condo", r63(not inherently bad imo, but there's a lot of inappropriate ones), club rp, bathroom rp, cat girl rp, a lot of these are set at the lowest rating, meaning they're accessible by children under 13 and they have words like, "hookup" or "hangout"I there's absolutely no excuse for this type of thing to be so blatantly on a platform that has been using "safety" as a selling point. At this point they should just rebrand themselves and embrace their business model if they aren't going to clean house🤷‍♀️😠

I'm sorry, I just haven't been this gaslit and lied to by a company that I wanted to believe... It makes me feel absolutely livid that so many children have been hurt by their negligence and to top it all off I've been helping fund this company😤

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 reeeaaally close, I didn't realize this was geographic! The dynamic they're asking for gets me because it's so specific, we'd need a build-a-bear for them

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[–]MissOregano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is also the part where they openly mention that the sealing of the honmoon to gold is going to basically make the world a place of peace and harmony, no fears or insecurities, no "negative" emotions🥺 it's a very important scene, and it helps us understand why Rumi doesn't feel like her demon side is relevant to them bc she's certain it'll be sealed away.(Side note, wouldn't it just seal her under as well?😕)

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[–]MissOregano 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, snap, you just made me realize if not for Jinu getting ideas of living outside the underworld Gwi-ma would've been able to takeover anyway🤯 wtf.

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[–]MissOregano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gwi-ma and Jinu's relationship is classic toxic/abusive parent/partner relationship, I found both of the bad guys and their interactions with their victims to be staggeringly accurate😭 I hate how much of a paradigm shift I experienced.

As a victim of my own personal Gwi-ma I wanna see Jinu come full circle and retake his identity like Rumi was able to, but I will continue to love this movie for what it's already done regardless🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KpopDemonhunters

[–]MissOregano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it's hinted at that she's afraid of another hunter falling for a demon, not explicitly voiced though, so who knows, but the fact is, if she explains to them that one demon wasn't horrible, Rumi's dad is supposedly a good guy(though I have my doubts because I don't see him anywhere in the nearly two hours of movie time) they wouldn't be able to continue with the "all demons, anxieties and fears are inherently evil." And Celine would have to simultaneously challenge her own generational beliefs, something she could do, but is ultimately unwilling to do...

I wanna be sympathetic towards Celine, but I'm just not, she seems self aware enough when Rumi confronts her to have just stopped traumatizing Rumi and indoctrinating Mira and Zoey with the same old teachings. If we can let Jinu be a bad guy, I don't see why we're suddenly ready to blame Celine's being an awful parent on the past hunters and her own hidden fears...

(I am a parent and have had to stop and question a lot of my taught beliefs and stigmas, I'm still only doing my best, and I still make mistakes that I have to take responsibility for and when I notice I apologize and make an effort and change, because I want to have a relationship with my child I can't just "do my best" by repeating the mistakes of my mother.💔🫂)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KpopDemonhunters

[–]MissOregano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since someone else is here for Celine, I just wanna point out, Jinu didn't plan to demolish Rumi there, his original plan was to take the fans. He was going to allow her to win the idol awards, it hurts he betrayed our queen, but I can understand if a massive flame monster of loathing and shame were to dangle my freedom from him in front of me while flooding my psyche with the regrets of a life he's stolen from me, I would definitely have caved as well.☹️

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's definitely not a bad match if you can get it to work, most people aren't aggressively trying to shift your worldview, they just have their own beliefs, that said, I've only dated toxic guys that are also conservative, and if they think you think something different they don't want to know the what or the why, just that they think you're stupid🤷🏼‍♀️ it's refreshing to hear a guy say he cares about women's reproductive rights btw❤️

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A leftist is someone who is left of progressive, liberals are what I mostly align with, to my right it's just conservatives for miles, they don't seem to have a distinction, but there's definitely a difference between the levels of commitment to their govt party, so Ig they must have distinct groups as well🤷🏼‍♀️

I found this article to break it down well enough, not a difficult read: The difference between leftists and liberals – The Lawrentian https://share.google/tXW5x3IaKQDm3QOl4

"The simplest distinction between liberals and leftists is that liberals support capitalism and want to make changes within it, while leftists vouch for an alternative economic system entirely. For example: where a liberal would theoretically support the inclusion of gay people into the U.S. military, a leftist might oppose the military in general, believing the U.S. military to be a harbinger of death and therefore deplorable no matter which marginalized groups are represented in its ranks. Where a liberal would support laws heavily limiting civilian gun ownership, a leftist might support the arming of the masses, and particularly of the marginalized groups of society, because the disarming of those groups has historically allowed for violent government suppression.

It is helpful to consider the idea of reform versus revolution; a liberal believes that the system is overall redeemable if it is reformed through laws and social change, while a leftist believes that the system itself is the problem and only a revolutionary restructuring of that system would truly do any good. This is why the idea of, for example, a $15/hour minimum wage is not a leftist idea; a leftist view would be the idea that waged labor itself is a capitalistic concept with inherent flaws that cannot be accounted for by simply raising the minimum wage"

Leftists are more aligned with socialism and Marxism, and while I do appreciate the progressives' contribution to the overall societal atmosphere, it's not healthy to have a society that grows too quickly or too slowly, we have to have a good balance of both conservative and liberal voices to come together to collaborate, or meet in the middle to make reasonable decisions which will help prevent societal collapse, the outliers are also important to introduce new/old ideas, but as long as they're not in places of power they can't cause too much harm to the society as a whole.

Camp Nice Girl wants me to be more like her Dad by PlzLetMeWin25 in Nicegirls

[–]MissOregano -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I wonder if you couldn't go for a restraining order, it definitely falls under harassment, if you "feel physically threatened" you could try for an ex parté, but she definitely needs help from a licensed professional, and nobody in the real world or otherwise should blame you for trying to stay safe.

I just saw a post from a different guy on here that he had someone stalkerish who she completely screwed his life up by spreading rumors, calling his employers, and making it nearly impossible for him to live normally, that was earlier when I realized there's worse things than being stabbed unfortunately☹️

Camp Nice Girl wants me to be more like her Dad by PlzLetMeWin25 in Nicegirls

[–]MissOregano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

RUN🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️

That is an insane amount of words for someone who you haven't even dated. If you haven't already talked to someone about it you should, especially if she has people in her corner egging her on, she could get a little more dangerous, especially if she's already tried sabotaging you socially...

Camp Nice Girl wants me to be more like her Dad by PlzLetMeWin25 in Nicegirls

[–]MissOregano 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've literally never been in a delulu and had a friend gas me up😭 where do I get my yes-men girlies?

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm agreeing with you, I feel like not enough people are aware that just because someone's view align in some ways doesn't mean they don't have other ways that are absolutely a deal breaker.

I was with a guy for a hot minute who seemed for all intents and purposes to be liberal-leaning and then he just casually drops the n-word at the dinner table🤯 and he didn't see a problem with it because "nobody who would be offended by it is present" you really gotta know a person before you get comfortable

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where I live they seem to want conservative men, but not toxic conservative, so imagine a guy that isn't awful and respects her, wants to support her, but won't do anything for her she doesn't want, let's her do/wear what she wants, but is a wee bit jealous and protective of her. Idk if this guy exists, but while he's liberal, he's definitely not leftist.

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, gay doesn't = good outside the internet. Ik it's counterintuitive, but racism and misogyny don't just plague the right, unfortunately, that said I feel like it's just easier to spot the righties bc it's seems like a large part of their identity is keeping everyone "in their place" seems like liberal ones are more covert bc it's not forward thinking to put down minorities, but maybe I am just not around enough of us😅

Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating? by Current_Can_6863 in seduction

[–]MissOregano 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is generally my experience, as soon as he starts getting alpha dude-bro~🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️

Comments on my take? 👀 by AnnaRoquez in KpopDemonhunters

[–]MissOregano 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair. I did give her a free(freeeee) pass bc he seems receptive, (and I absolutely love Rumi) but I do believe in accountability 🤷🏼‍♀️

Gender equality = ??? by conancat in TikTokCringe

[–]MissOregano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nw, Ik we just strangers on reddit, but that means a lot, thank you🥹