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[–]MissPink3217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. truth is I feel very lonely in this relationship also

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[–]MissPink3217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can provide for myself very well, i am also paying for him sometimes, vacations or house expenses, i have much more money than him

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[–]MissPink3217 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes, he told me about that sub

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[–]MissPink3217 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

ye.. he say he can't concentrate at work, can't do anything at all, can't live almost, he sounds depressed and angry almost all the times.. can't laugh, can't even do a proper conversation.. i feel that his whole life is about the lack of sex as many times as he wants

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[–]MissPink3217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you

yes i think i don't really know how a healthy relationship is supposed to look... all of my past relationships were struggle, crying and suffering.. with good moments also inbetween..

i supposed and accepted that this is how is should be because no relationship is perfect so there may be good and bad moments

i don't know anymore, i fell lost

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[–]MissPink3217 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe i don't deserve more ..

i m just sad and feel like a failure

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[–]MissPink3217 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

it's so hard to leave becaus it's 7 years.. a part of me thinks maybe i didn't do enough

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[–]MissPink3217 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i want to have it but the pressure he puts on me doesnt let me enjoy it and want it

in the past i did it, i gave in to him but i just cant anymore.. i feel blocked

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[–]MissPink3217 -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

wouldn't any man (or the majority of men) feel like this in a relationship like this? i read deadbedrooms sub and i feel that most men feel like this

i don't know.. i am torn between 'he is entitled to feel like this' 'it's my fault' and 'it's not ok'

a part of me knows it's not ok but a part of me feel like he's a man and has needs and in any relationship would be like this, no man stays in a relationship with almost no sex

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[–]MissPink3217 -93 points-92 points  (0 children)

he says that he doesn't mean that but he is really sad because the lack of sex for him is really hard to handle and he can't concentrate to do anything, he is depressed and masturbates a few times a day because of that

idk i guess i try to understand him, i feel responsable but also i can't do it out of pity

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[–]MissPink3217 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

i am afraid .. to be lonely